Have you been there? Tell me how you felt, and how much it took to move on... this moment I feel its gonna be easier knowing he is an a**hole and doesnt deserve me. Is it so?
2006-08-27 22:14:13 · 11 answers · asked by Lex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its painful and rememebr one thing the faster u let go the faster u will move on.. so cry let the hurt come out, and forget and forgive and move on, no one is worth yr tears i know its hard and painful but remember it is better he left now than later.. let that someone special come into yr life so let gooo... i promise it will get better.
2006-08-27 22:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey my dear.. I've spent last two weeks asking the same question.. I'm going through the same thing as you, feeling desperate because of some hurtless monster.. I don't feel like it is going to end ever, but people told me that it will go away eventually.. Lets trust them, what else can we do? I'm angry because there is no much justice in this world, on one side they are happy and confident and on the other side we are crying thinking that there is something wrong with us.. There should be a balance in this world when God gives us sorrow and happiness.. Now I'm trying to find something to do besides my work, to preoccupy my mind which is full of two of them..
Hope that you are stronger person than me: ) and that someone better will come your way soon and replace hurt with joy.. Best wishes
2006-08-28 06:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by ssagittarius78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been there honey! I found out that my finace had been cheating on me the whole time we had been together. The other woman phoned me and told me about it. I stupidly beleived him when he said he wanted to work things out. He actually kept on seeing her and then broke up with me over the phone. I felt like a complete idot and was totally heaartbroken! My world just fell apart!
It's been 7 months since that happended and I'm now getting myself back on track. I've realised that the best thing to do is just hold your head up high! Everything I went though has made me a much stronger person and I realise that I am worth so much more than that two-timing loser!
Don't let anyone bring you down! You need to just focus on yourself and what makes you happy! If you sit around thinking about him it will only make you feel terrible. Get you hair done, buy a new outfit, go out with some girlfirends and chat up some cute guys. I guarentee it will make you feel better! And just count yourself lucky that you found out now what a lier and a cheat he is, rather than furthur doen the line. The girl he cheated on you with didn you a favour and if she goes with other peoples boyfriends then it sounds like they deserve eachother!
Keep your chin up xx
2006-08-28 05:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there a few times, hurt like hell. It still hurts sometimes, but then I remind my self that I deserve a faith full man, because I am good woman. It helps a little, but only time will really heal you. Sorry for your sorrow. He should get a raging case of herpes for what he did to you.
2006-08-28 05:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am sean 13 male i havent been there but i know what im saying coz when i was 8 i saw my parents were if you are the victim then he truely doesnt deserve you he is a real jerk well if i was there i would want to help you if you want to be my friend then email me at u_good_boy@yahoo.com
2006-08-28 05:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by sean j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there and it sux.What really sux is that I caught them in bed together.It took me almost a year to get over her and i've moved on-I'm happier without her and,as for her,someone we both know told me she has 4 kids by 3 different guys...serves her right...
2006-08-28 05:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by the_silver_tin_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Crispie above, revenge is always sweet but make sure you don't want him back (and you should'nt). And also don't lower yourself to his level by running out and getting another guy.
Revenge is best served COLD.
2006-08-28 05:33:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your luck. The feelings of hurt and betrayal sucks! Know that you are better than that and that you are better than him. Obviously he doesn't care enough of you to be respectful. Hope you dumped him.
There's lots of fish in the sea....hope you find one that will treat you right.
Good luck!
2006-08-28 05:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know it really sucks bad when you find out youre partner has been cheating on you and lying, but as time goes on you will forget all about that person.
2006-08-28 05:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there and it hurts alot it took me 6 months. if it helps to hate him then yes.
2006-08-28 05:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋