I meet this guy on a night out with some friends , we talked most of the night and at the end of the night he asked me for my phone number . I said to him I will be going to see a band that was playing in a pub 2 days after, maybe I'll see you there
To my surprise he showed up and he introduced me to his friends
At the end of the night we went to his friends house and I saw him quite interested in all about me , what do I like , where do I work and things like that.
We said good night with a few kisses and we will be in touch .
After that we were texting for a few days, I asked him if he was free to meet and his reply was : I am afraid my schedule is pretty busy for the next 3 o 4 weeks I will be working in my house ( He just bought a house and his doing most of the work himself). After that nothing no txt no calls, I don't get it I thought he was interested , did I missed something ? Should I give him some time ? Why guys do that? I am not in love but I want to know what's happen
2006-08-27 22:12:53 · 23 answers · asked by blueflosky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when i started dating my current man he also told me he would be busy for 4 weeks cos of his work and stuff like this. i said ok. but then after 1 week he called anyway cos he cancelled stuff. but i didn't call him , didn't nag when we re going to meet or anything. so my advice just play cool. do not contact him anymore. after a week and a half if there will be no sign from him u can text him "how is the work in the house going? hope u re still alive and not dead tired" or smth like this. do not suggest any new meetings anymore. so if he contacts u first he is genuinly busy with work (i can't imagine how any guy can be busy with work if he just met a perfect girl, but who knows). but if he doesn't contact u forget him. do hot contact him any more. and in any case do not ask him how he feels. u will seem clingy if u do that. good luck. i still hope he will contact u soon and cancels his work in the house. and please do not start stalking him as someone suggested
2006-08-28 00:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 23:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by mclelland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's entirely possible that this guy is a player, and was looking for an easy shag. He met you, he turned up two days later hoping that you would 'do the deed'..but he only got kisses, so decided the effort wasn't worth it and has blown you off.
The only other real option is he is telling the truth and is very busy, or he has hooked up with someone else.
Don't torture yourself trying to figure it out - who can understand their own motivation, let alone someone elses? Thank the stars for a potentially lucky escape, take the nice memory and move on.
Good luck hon
2006-08-27 22:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by untappedatom1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did your best by asking him to meet, but he either is really busy or he changed his mind. You should txt him and tell him that if he ever has some free time and would want to meet for coffee (make it sound casual), then he should not think twice before contacting you, or offer him to help him in his new house. But do not over do it.
Send him a message once, and wait for his reply.
2006-08-27 22:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the 3 to 4 weeks r over and he hasnt called u then ya gotta call him... guys can be soooo DUMB when it comes to relationships that femmes need to take the lead... ladies shouldnt sit back and take it. Ya gotta ask him out on a date and if he says no then you can get the picture pretty quickly, asking the guy is the only way, you'll never ever know if you dont ask the question... dont live with the what ifs, be certain that his answer is definite no...
2006-08-27 23:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by darthmawler 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he is terrriblly busy with his house so wait fr a week or 2 like he said adn wait fr his text after he gets less busy, if he never calls or text then hes not interested, so be patient and play the waiting game.
2006-08-27 22:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he give you his address? If not, forget him. If he did you
can check it out, or, better still, have someone check this new
house for you. If he is really working on the house,it is no
excuse to cut you off altogether. He can phone, have a cup
of coffee with you or something non committing. Seems to me
that his wife, or girlfriend returned from a holiday and he is
not wanting to take any risk! If he has somebody else, she/he
possible knows something and has taken control. Frankly, I
would forget him, there are plenty of others (and better) chances
awaiting you. I wish you success and not a waste of time.
2006-08-27 22:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him some credit he could just be really busy or something else could've happened with his family or something that he can't tell you...... Or he's not interested just give him a little time maybe ask if there's anything you can do to help, meanwhile get on with your life he'll tell you if he's ready for a relationship
2006-08-27 23:06:19 · answer #8 · answered by thorpehannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he proberbly did like you, but for some reason has had a change of heart, maybe an old ex has popped up out of the closet I think it is his way of letting you down gently men are not very courageous when it comes to the female form but it down as a lucky escape my love...... find some one that truly deserves you
2006-08-27 22:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by Berrylicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time .. he could really be busy. Let him know you are there when he is available and leave it at that .. Well if he doesn't contact you then he has moved on. It does happen.
Hugs - Mel (Loving Memory of our son, our angel Zachary Aug 4, 2006)
2006-08-27 22:17:13 · answer #10 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋