This is a sequel to my lovelife questions. As I mentioned in my first two questions, I've been dating a guy, who I met a month ago. We expressed our feelings for each other. However, just recently, a friend of mine called me to ask questions about me and that guy. I only said that we were just friends because we haven't made official yet. Furthermore, she warned me to stay out of that guy because he has a gf already. After that, I talked to him about it. He simply said that she's just a friend for a long time now. I called his roomate and he said that the girl is just a friend. I dont know who to believe to. Please advice me.
2006-08-27 21:41:46 · 35 answers · asked by SeriouslyInLove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe your so called girlfriend is jealous and she wants to make trouble for you. Follow your own instincts and do what you think is right and if you believe him then that is because you know him. Anyway if I were you I wouldn't trust that friend of yours. She might like him herself. Be aware of her!
2006-08-27 22:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful, and use extreme caution before this gets out of hand. You have been DATING this guy for 1 month, its not official yet. This means if yall haven't said,
"lets date only each other", the field is still open to both of you. In a serious relationship there is no room for doubt. Don't begin to spy on this fellow, that is not healthy for you or him. You need to listen to your own intuition, 99.9 percent of the time its telling you what to do already. Remember, 1 month, only dating, not official gf or bf yet. The field is open, until yall cross that bridge.
2006-08-27 22:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by easydoesit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out, things like this can get sticky and even dangerous. I say you've only put a month into this, just move on and investigate the next one a little closer and remember to see a clean STD test before you get too close. Leave those two friends to continue on with their "friendship."
2006-08-27 21:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by wow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. this sounds fimaliar. do you spend alot of time with this guy? i deffinatly think you should talk to him about it and the girl a little more. Don't feel bad about talking to him about it either because it's your right to know if he's with another girl before you make anything offical. if it's only been a month im not sure if i would trust him to tell me the truth yet. Sorry that's all i have to say.
2006-08-27 21:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a jealous woman trying to interfere in your happiness, believe the guys... is why I have very few female friends, their too catty... most guys can appear really dense sometimes, but for the most part their going to be straight up!
2006-08-27 21:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by someone s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you and this guy really have something, then you should believe him. The most important thing in a relationship is trust. If he says she is a friend then accept that so that you and him can be together.
2006-08-27 21:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by anje_s2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all i have to say is that you should not believe any of them at the moment, its better for you to inestigate that issue by yourself before taking any disition cos any of them might be wrong or right which you don't really know.
So i will advice you to investigate that yourself, before talking action. You can ask your closest and best friend to help you investigate and spy for you too, i mean your friend that you really trust.
Wish you best of luck.
2006-08-27 22:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by Oshoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slowly with the other guy .. listen to your heart but generally friends will come to you in hopes to protect you from harm.
Hugs - Mel (Loving Memory of our son, our angel Zachary Aug 4, 2006)
2006-08-27 21:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I make sure that this 'friend' you have is really a friend. See who you can trust most, her or your new boyfriend. Your boyfriend's friend can be another girl whom he has not made 'official' like in your case and that he can be playing with you both.
2006-08-27 21:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is just a friend then it seems that the three of you (you , your guy, and the mystery girl)could hang out one night. Then you will know for yourself, and won't be going off of what someone said. Suggest it and see what his response is.
2006-08-27 21:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋