i went to uk 4 weeks ago & met this guy at a club. guys at english clubs, or any clubs, are dodgy or sleazy. but he was a breath of fresh air. he's not only good looking, but intelligent, a gentleman, &sexy. i'm a dancer, so considering how i get tired of dancing w/ guys after a 1.5 min. he's a pretty good dancer cuz i danced w/ him for 2 hrs. he was super sweet &a lot of fun. the chemistry &connection we had was AMAZING.
unfortunately, it was my last night, but we both had a connection, so even after 3 hours of spending time that night, we switched emails. after a week, i waited to see if he would email me, but he didn't so i emailed him. 2 days later he emailed me back. i waited a week & emailed him again, & it's been like 14 days? & no response. i can't stop thinking about him. i feel so stupid. what am i expecting when we live 1000s of miles & what does he feel? i want to get to know him, but i doubt this works out. i want to tell him how i feel, but i might scare him. wut 2 do?
2006-08-27 21:10:09 · 32 answers · asked by batmanxgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he wasn't a native, he was travelling too btw. the reason he might not be responding is because in his last (first) email, he said he's going to be travelling soon, and so i think he's travelling around now and has no internet connection (or am i hoping?). he said to keep in contact and stuff...so i don't know....
2006-08-27 21:10:34 · update #1
If he is traveling then give him time, if the chemistry was there then he will get back to as soon as he can. Just try and hold on in there for a bit.
2006-08-27 21:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by kitpoodle 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
email him back if you want. although, some people do not check email on a daily basis. Or he could be very busy or even have gotten side tracked. honestly i rarely respond to emails. i respond on myspace or IM's but hardly on emails. keep all that in mind. plus he's 1000 miles away! hmmm... do you even know if he has a girlfriend there? long distance relationships can work if there is already a committed, solid, relationship to hold the foundation. even then it is a struggle at times. good luck in whatever you do, but seriously.
there are so many fish in the sea,
and it's not a sea... it's an ocean!
2006-08-27 21:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by copaceticlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt anything will happen if he lives that far away from you, it might just have been a vacation crush, totally normal... I don't think you need to tell him unless anything else happened that you didn't mention. It's not a big deal, unless you think that you would actually cheat on your boyfriend, regardless of whether it would be with this guy or anyone else. In that case, then you should just accept it as a loss, and cut him loose without drawing it out unnecessarily.
2006-08-27 21:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by mikkimouse2005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him it was one night of dancing and you are going ga-ga over that. Grow up, if he wanted to stay in touch he would. You can email someone from almost anywhere, the library an internet cafe, a friends house etc., even a cellphone. So if you don't hear from him don't sweat it it is not going to happen, maybe he has a girlfriend or wife you don't really know.
2006-08-27 21:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Aside from all of the other advice, STOP WAITING A WEEK TO CONTACT HIM!!! Espescailly if he responds in two!
If you're using a form of instant, easy to access communication, waiting seven days to communicate demonstrates a lack of caring/interest.
2006-08-27 21:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by Shofix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wonderful!what a nice guy?but do you think such guy can be single?or do you think just because you danced with him is enough reason to to start chasing you?what you could have done is to try and find some background informatiom regarding him.Guys like chasing ladies and they love this game, and once you start making your self more available ur making yourself predictable.Keep silent b4 he start doubting you and that silence may trigger him if he has any interest in you.Goodlucks.
2006-08-27 21:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by chef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should e-mail him and get this off your chest....Love is a good thing but sometimes you get hurt its life and you will find out it soon enough so go for it ....Live life and dont have any regrets....
Good luck i hope it all works out for you in the end
2006-08-27 21:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by pam b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's travelling then what are you worried about? When he gets back he'll look at his e-mails and go " Wow! That hot dancer I met has been e-mailing me. I'll e-mail her back right away." Thats how it will play out.
2006-08-27 21:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by Rudebox77 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't email you bck! it's probably not meant to be! there might be someone better waiting for you, that is close by! good things happen when you least expect it! don't carry on emailing him! no man is worth worring about!
Men are like buses you wait for one and it never comes and when it does come they all come together!
2006-08-27 21:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best shot is to wait..but honestley i dont think hes interested but we girls usually are too optimisticabout these stuff..and as u said it wont work any way...
but dont let a good guy go to wait or in other chanceses good potential..if he answers hes interested...
p.s. guys like the chase dont talk to him about feelings its a turn off,,,act nice sweet,, no problems life is like a flower,,,soo hed be encouraged
2006-08-27 21:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by lollypop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋