Asking this as a poll: what was the biggest surprise you found out about someone you had beenover a month?

Answer 1

My ex fiance got the girl he cheated on me with, pregnant.

Hugs Mel - Loving Memory of my son, our angel Zachary Aug 2, 2006

Answer 2

hmmm... a few years ago I found out a man I was living with and engaged too was actually married already - and to make matters worse, after we broke up.. I found out he'd been sleeping with a transvestite! Very Scary Indeed ~ thank God he's long gone and that I'm 3 years later HIV free

Answer 3

Not me, but someone I knew only found out after two years of marriage, that her husband used to work for a drug lord in Europe, transferring massive amounts of illegal substances to the suppliers in and around Europe. Needless to say, she was completely shocked at first, but she is still with him and that life is very much in his past. HTH.

Answer 4

I found out that his ex-wife, whom he claims to despise, was calling daily (repeatedly), still sending e-mails, & that he watched her dogs for her whenever she went out of town. They don't have children or any friends in common, the divorce was final, so why does she need to still be in his life to that extent, when he's told her he hates her? His kids hate her, his family hates her . . . etc. But he hasn't shut the door & she still gets in . . .

Answer 5

My fiance is a PORNO KING BIG TIME!!!!!!!! Lost his job after 30 years and then cheats and sleeps with just about anyone and wonders WHY I am UPSET???????????

GOT CHECKED- CLEAN - THREW HIM OUT!!!!!!!

Answer 6

That people never seem to cherish until it's too late.

Answer 7

that the person was lesbian and thought i wanted her equally....I'm straight soooo it was a surprise...