My relationship's been for 3 half months. We both committed dat this is going to last until marriage. I have been faithful although we're parted in 2 different countries. He's also been faithful. But when i see him last week during my leave, he changed into a very cold man. I gain few kgs, that's true, but dat doesn't make me an ugly girl. Some people say that i'm an attractive person. But I really Love this man. Now, i'm really confused, wether he still love me as he say he always been. And now I began to question is he just making a fun out of me, or he's serious about everything he said. Sure he told me everything i need to know, and he didn't lie. But when I'm suppose to meet the parents for dinner (last week, and we have planned for everything, i even brought my night gown!), then he kinda make up some excuses, say his mom is on a business trip to K.L. Please help me??? Anyone..
2006-08-27 20:51:19 · 7 answers · asked by lonely gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lose him...
2006-08-27 20:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Eric P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have had a few long distance relationships. I currently have some very close friends that live far away. I had a long distance relationship with my first husband. When we were dating he lived two hours away and he worked on a ship so even when we lived together and later on got married it was still a long distance relationship. I also had a boyfriend that I was engaged to that lived four hours from me and traveled a lot. He died before we had a chance to get married :( My current husband started as a long distance relationship. We burned up a lot of gas driving to each other and a lot of money on phone calls! The distance made me nuts but when we were finally together it was such a relief and worth the wait. Also I have a cousin that had a long distance relationship with a guy in Australia. He flew her there to met him and after about 12 years of marriage they are still together. He moved to America to be with her.
2016-03-17 03:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect from this relationship too much. You might get hurt badly. If he really loves you, you'll know that, and if he doesn't, you'll feel that.
He is such a loser if he thinks you're ugly just because you gained some weight. So what if you gained some pounds, true love should see beyond the physical beauty. How can he truly love you if the physical features matters to him.
If he really wants you to meet his folks, don't insist. Let him do the scheduling. You say you love him, but you have to love yourself first. You deserve to be treated fairly and with respect.
2006-08-27 21:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by jen_good girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might want to consider that he might be changing his mind . Maybe he is not as faithful as you think. It does seem odd that you make plans to meet his parents and he makes an excuse because I am sure the plans were made in advance and he could have made sure that she would have been available the time you planned for .... so something is definetely not right here
2006-08-27 20:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this relationship has been going on for 3 half months?? and you gained some weight already.... how long did you know him before the relationship... i don't think he was making fun out of you.. i think he met you right before closing time & now its morning... you need to move on down the line... take your gown & tell him to fly like the wind... tell him your chicken sandwich is getting cold & you gotta mooooove on .
2006-08-27 20:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical appearance is evidently very important to him.
Lose the weight, or find another man.
2006-08-27 20:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by helixburger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dont love you no more chick. he's found someone over there and he'd trying to become mean to u so he can say u broke up with him. MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-27 21:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by fifie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him, then stay with him. ask him if he still loves you as much as he did when he met you, if he cant answer it, then leave him.
2006-08-27 20:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by Xavier's Mommy ツ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋