I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months and we were doing well in the begining, we then started having our ups and downs. He decided to give us some time apart and we did, some time later he sent a text saying "I've decided to fix the wrongs in my life" I didn't quite understand what he meant and asked, he responded saying "am talking about doing the right thing. Living right and with a purpose. To love with all my heart and soul" He then sent another text saying "You would'nt want to be loved by someone with all their heart and soul" I responded by asking if that was a question and what it meant but i got no reply, I asked to see him and he could not see me becouse he was "busy". Called the other day to know what is happening and he asys I am twisting his words and that I am over-reacting to something that is so simple. I would really like to know whats up coz its holding me down! Am I really over-reactinmg?
2006-08-27 20:47:56 · 24 answers · asked by loveydovey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I don't think you are over-reacting. This guy seems to have serious issues himself right now, maybe you should consider giving him more time apart to resolve these issues and then move on.
2006-08-27 20:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by mortisia2121 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he told you that "You would'nt want to be loved by someone with all their heart and soul", then he says he is "busy" when you were trying to meet him and now he says that you are overreacting... all this after the "time apart" period which I am totally against. It is either you are together or not! I would give this give a lot of time apart if i were you.
I would just ignore him and see if he calls you. If he calls you then I would tell him straight and plain that you would want to discuss this relationship and see what his intentions are, and if he does not, then move on with your life and find someone who has no emotional traumas and that does not need to fix anything!
2006-08-28 03:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just needing some space, sometimes that happens in a relationship .. or he just isn't into the relationship anymore. People do grow apart and the only way to find out the true answer to this is to have a open honest talk. If he can't give you that, then move forward. You deserve to be treated with respect and if someone can't be honest with you - then you are not getting that.
Hugs Mel - Loving Memory of my son, our angel Zachary Aug 2, 2006
2006-08-28 03:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I decided to get "right" with God, the hardest decision I had to make was to take my husband back (we had been separated for 2 years). It was very hard to realize that I had to take him back and give up friendships that could have led to true love. My husband is a great person, but I have never been in love with him. However, when a pushy guy ask about us, I always talk about happiness with God. I am not sure what your friend was talking about by decided you didn't want to be loved by someone with their heart and soul. I thought that was everyone's dream. If I were you, I would just let him know that if he ever wants to just be friends that you are there, but, that you are moving on. Good luck girlie.
2006-08-28 04:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate when people send a text instead of making a phone call. How are you supposed to decipher what he said? You're not over reacting, let it go. He's probably trying to confuse you because he's full of it.
2006-08-28 03:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don´t waste your time, even if the package looks good, the guy´s a loony. The last thing you need is someone complicated. Life is complicated enough to add to it.
2006-08-28 03:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why let it hold you down, why search for a hidden meaning, you've only been with him 3 months, move on.
2006-08-28 03:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing word games. Girl let him go and love with all his "heart and soul", but let him do it without you. You don't need that crap.
2006-08-28 03:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he's playing games . Quit wasting your time and move on .
2006-08-28 03:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by Peter F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him you can love him with heart and soul and let him do the same and tell those to him, will work, trust urself
2006-08-28 03:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋