how does a guy find out if a girl wants to be friends w/ benefits, do you just bring it up during conversation?
2006-08-27 20:35:56 · 22 answers · asked by Mic Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One way is to tell increasingly risque and sexy jokes and watch the response. If she laughs real hard, you may have found something. Then ask. Most women know what time it is. If she says no, no one died, and you can ask again later. When you were a kid, and you wanted a bike, did you only ask once?
2006-08-27 20:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by helixburger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could go that route. I've had many friends with benefits, have a couple now. Some it's been brought up in convo. At a bar drinking, talking about sex and my friend said "why don't we hook up, but no emotional crap, okay". a few times my female friends have gone into how they hadn't had sex in awhile or they needed good oral and that moved into us hooking up then we continued to. I've usually had the women bring it up or make the first move, but you have to lay out the rules you both agree to or somebody is going to develop feelings and get hurt.
2006-08-28 03:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by JJohn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my brother once asked me this question. my best answer if you are good looking enough that girls take interest just wait for them to ask you out. then kindly tell them you are not really looking for a girlfriend at that time, but you would be interested in being friends with benefits. if they walk away you saved yourself weeks of wasted time. they might get mad at you because of your attitude, but at least they won't be mad because you dated them and dumped them because they wanted more out of the relationship than you. you don;t have too waste money and time on dates. they can never claim you led them on.
2006-08-28 04:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by pansy1532 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't really have to bring it up during a conversation but there is actually nothing wrong with doing so, depending on how you present it.
2006-08-28 04:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go hang out at your local STD clinic. I'm sure you'll find plenty of friends w/benefits and so much more to offer you there you dumb a**!
2006-08-28 03:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by rms21560 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually, if you joke about it with the person, the idea becomes very like-able and it just happens. It's fun but us girls get too easily attached to a guy.
2006-08-28 04:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you have aids. You'll find all types of friends w/benefits.
2006-08-28 03:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi i dont think it ever works i have been in that spot b4 and all its does it fet the both of you confused, its good at the time but it gets worse.
2006-08-28 03:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
look for a girl that wears slutty clothes and seems attention hungry, then when they're depressed one night or just in need of extra attention stick your finger in her butt when she isn't looking
2006-08-28 03:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,prefer desperate semi hungry girls,or if you look like Vin Diesel just give them a call to come over.They WILL come! good luck
(again if you look like Vin Diesel you do not need luck)
2006-08-28 03:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by QriUs 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋