there is this guy and i really like him BUT he already kno's.. he is really close to my family and i kno that he likes me.. the only reason he wont date me is cause he is so close to the family... he is so cute and i mean i really like him.. sometimes i think it would be easier to be friends cause i dont want to ruin the relationship we already have.... i dont kno what to do.. its hard to talk to my family cause they all kno him!!! please help!!! and thank u for everything ppl
2006-08-27 20:31:41 · 11 answers · asked by lildummy09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive known him for 5 years!
2006-08-27 20:43:43 · update #1
hey, talk aout it with him. tell him how u feel, i know u think things will get weird between u, but u should follow your heart, he even has home advantage cos ur family likes him already. go for wat u want, DONT B AFRAID!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-08-27 20:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by fifie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not see where the path will lead you two in? The good thing is that he is already close with your family so you know there won't be that issue of them not liking them. Either way, I believe in following ones heart. If it doesn't work out, you two can always remain friends. At least you won't be left with that feeling of What Ifs.
Hugs Mel - Loving Memory of my son, our angel Zachary Aug 2, 2006
2006-08-27 20:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw!
I would continue to keep things the way they are. If you still have these feelings for him in a few months, than maybe it could be a good idea to try and take it to the next level. But if you truely enjoy what you two already have, than stay away! Don't worry about your families, for they may like it, especially if they like him!
Goodluck with this!
2006-08-27 20:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Seinfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be close friends for now be his best friend, someone he needs advice from, can vent too,ect. Give it a couple years and he will be begging to be with you, I know it seems like a long time but it will be worth it in the long run. If things don't work out you will always have atleast a really good friend out of it.It worked for me , good luck.
2006-08-27 20:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister is dating a super close family friend we have known for 10 years as long as u dont break up on bad terms its ok
2006-08-27 20:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not be that big of deal with being close to the family.
2006-08-27 20:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a Good friend of Him Only.Do not try to be in love with him and spoil relationships with your family.
2006-08-27 20:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by shri 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would have to just ask him if he thinks of u as more than a friend...and if he thinks of u as a lover...that sort of stuff....i mean some friends work some dont so just talk tyo him and if he doesnt feel it would work then move on
2006-08-27 20:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by todd_had_a_bucket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it won't ruin the relationship wtih anyone. aslong as (if yall break up in the future) don't break up on bad terms. i'd say tell him you like him and procede from there tell him what u fear.
2006-08-27 20:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by willjw17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your brother its not going to work out between you guys.
2006-08-27 20:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by Ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋