how do i know my fiance loves me or not ?

Question

i know one defination of love:----in love the person wants to see her partner happy.but in my case (rite now i m just focussing on my career) n my fiance who sayz she loves me just blames me that i m running behind girls. the fact is i m trying my level best to settle down before my fiance completes her education so that she can enjoy her future but her blammings since last 2 yrs has disturbed me a lot n coz of tat my PG course is in probls n also my career.My parents n her parents n MOST IMP she knows that i m gonna marry her but still she blames me. I feel very lonely n feels like committing sucide so tat everything wud be over once for all coz i tried to convince my fiance that i m pure n clean n she shud just hve patience till she completes her education.But no way she just continues blamming.i will wait for ur answers till 3 daz if i dnt get a good solution on the 4th day im committing sucide.Thanks.

Answer 1

Whether she is the one or not only you can no, threatening people with suicide is not the answer. If it is then you shouldn't be marrying this person. Say clearly and simply that You are working very hard to provide for her future you can do no more than that and if she has no patience maybe you should forget the whole thing...she may need to hear this to bring her to her senses. Girls can get very excited about marriage and want all the babies and home and therefore if she is like this then she will not value her opportunity to be educated, she may need to return to school later and finish then. You need to concentrate on your course if not for the two of you then for you yourself. You can not change the way she is and if she's annoying you now then she will continue to do so with her impatience, if you can not be patient and guide her now then you will have no hope when the little ones come along...she sound very immature and may need to grow up some more before marrying. Good luck!

Answer 2

that's genuinely time-honored which you would be disappointed by her asserting those issues. individually, i like multiple Eminem's music even however a number of that's damaging because of the fact particularly circumstances while i'm disappointed i will relate to it. particularly circumstances it enables me get my frustrations out. whilst that's ok for her to come across somebody else appealing, she shouldn't in any respect talk approximately appearing on it - whether she is conscious she could no longer/does no longer do it. If she relatively cares approximately you, she shouldn't even think of approximately being intimate with yet another man or woman - whether he's a star, he remains a man or woman. try explaining to her the form you sense. I doubt she will have the potential to think of it relatively is a vulnerability, that's merely honesty. enable her understand which you comprehend that she is attracted to him and that's super, yet that she shouldn't flaunt it to you because of the fact it makes you uncomfortable. attempt to do this in a peaceful way without 'accusing' her. Use "I" statements like "i think uncomfortable once you assert which you're sexually attracted to somebody else, even however he's a star." it is common and organic which you will sense this style. She possibly does not comprehend that it makes you sense this style. If she knew that and if she cares, then she does no longer do it. So that's purely a count number of you letting her understand the way it makes you sense.

Answer 3

whoa! take it easy man! hmmmm, am sorry to ask this but are you sure she loves you? i mean, she's acting like an immature brat! i think she doesn't trust you at all... in the contrary, maybe you are too busy with your career to the extent that you aren't showering her with l;ove and attention which makes her feel that you don't love her..

love needs attention and expression.. granted that you have the purest of intention, you have to make her feel that you do love her, you are faithful and that you will really soon marry her. if you have already established a strong foundation of love and trust then you can be lax to her and you won't be encountering same problems unless she really is immature..

Answer 4

Sorry to say this, but you need to end this now. If you're not happy, and you don't sound like you are, then obviously she's not the right girl for you.
Get single, get some confidence, and be comfortable and happy being by yourself, then you will find the right girl for you. They always come when you don't look for them, remember that.

Answer 5

Kick her under her but. If everything you say are true then (In my opinion) she is a spoilt brat and very ungrateful. How the hall could you sit up with this for two years.

Answer 6

hold on no one is worth losing your life for and to tell you the truth love hurts buddy but there is the one person that will love you and make you happy so don't give up and be a big boy and hang strong

Answer 7

I lost you with the 3rd line. Try to keep your questions simple. No one wants to read alot of blah, blah, blah. If she loved you you wouldn't have to ask that question.

Answer 8

May I suggest you learn how to spell before you post another question (or before killing yourself, which ever comes first). If you could bother to then learn proper punctuation, all of us would be very thankful.

Answer 9

You'll only know after u ask her 2 "sleep"with your football team & she says "yes, i thought you'd never ask "

Answer 10

ask if you could put it in her but. if she loves you shel let you.. if not then u should dump her as.