I have been dating this girl for six months through msn and we are pretty in love.We have not had any contact besides the internet and letters.Now we face a problem.We find our relationship hindering our daily activities..my girlfriend suggested us to be friends for a while because she finds it hard to do what she always do in school..what should we do?Besides she seem to think that internet dating is not life.Anyone have any good suggestions on how to solve this problem and pursue on a happy relationship again?
2006-08-27 20:26:59 · 13 answers · asked by Remus L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We initially planned to meet up in 2 years time and get married..now she plans to be friends for a while because we cant do what we are doping at school
2006-08-27 20:31:52 · update #1
i'm sure your feelings are real...but you really do need to see each other. 6 months is a long time, but not that long. are you in different states? what's the problem with meeting? just get it out of the way, b/c trust me, it's gonna be a WHOLE new world when you meet. but the benefit of it all is, that you have developed a friendship...and you know things about each other that most people do not take the time to do when they are actually dating. sex comes into play, and physical attraction starts to confuse real feelings with lust.
so i think you guys should appreciate the benefits in developing your relationship w/o all of the physical distractions. in many ways, you are 100 steps ahead of other couples who never take the time to do what you guys have done. but now u just need to move to the next step...meeting. hopefully it will all come together nicely.
what your girlfriend is saying is true, but it is also anxiety. she doesn't want the fairytale to end. you have to make her realize that she is in a better position with you, that she has probably been with most guys. ask her, how many men that she may meet at some club or mall will take 6 months to get to know her, for her, before trying to jump her bones?
good luck.
2006-08-27 20:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by sexy law chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, even if it were a normal relationship, you will find that you don't have time to do your normal activities because you now have to focus on the relationship.
I have dated on the internet and know alot of people who have and ended up together. You both might be motivated to have a stronger relationship with eachother if you meet. That could change things for the better ....or worse. Just try it, and see what happens.
2006-08-28 03:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop dating on the internet and start dating for real.
2006-08-28 03:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Internet dating is pointless. how is it being in a relationship if you cant physically be with the other?
The internet can help you meet a girl, but if you cant actually be with her, its not dating.
2006-08-28 03:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
never do internet dating u might be getting ur self in a relationship with a 60 year old grandma!
2006-08-28 03:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by Shayla <3 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She sounds smart. You should take her advice...I think she's politely trying to tell you that your English stinks.
You're verbal comprehension skills are lacking, too...she wants to break up, and you seem to think that you're both happy. Yeah...she sounds ecstatic!
2006-08-28 03:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girl friend made a very sensible suggestion. let the studies be pursued and examinations be tackle then you can renew your friendship
2006-08-28 03:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, get your lazy, afraid to confront reality *** off the computer and go meet her, whats the cost of a plane ticket to true love right? if you want this bad enough youd make it happen, but only YOU are gona be able to do that, got out and get her......now.........
welll cmon
G O !!!
Damn man y are you still HERE!!!! QUIT READING AND DRIVE/RUN/HITCHHIKE/HOBBLE to that airport
NOW!
2006-08-28 03:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, internet relationships rarely turn in to real life ones.
2006-08-28 03:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think she is right internet dating is not life so my dear go ahead
2006-08-28 03:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by golu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋