2006-08-27 20:26:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
What do you do then?
Are you still Gung Ho with your "Faith" in your religion after something like this occures?
2006-08-27 20:28:35 · update #1
It's just a hypathetical question folks, and has nothing to do with me.
2006-08-27 20:39:19 · update #2
Oh Yeah, well what if you find out there's no sex?
2006-08-27 20:49:00 · update #3
People say they fall out of love. Can you fall out of kindness? Can you fall out of charity? Have some respect and care for your companion, and the rest will take care of itself.
2006-08-27 20:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by Isolde 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give her a little time to warm up to the idea. Then I would check out all other avenues. I would certainly hope she would be understanding in the situation and keep an open mouth, I mean mind. :) Sex is just one level of marriage between two people. I would try to work something out instead of just telling her, "Oh, you're frigid? I want a divorce". If you base your marriage on sex, then you have gotten married for all the wrong reasons.
2006-08-29 12:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you're not really interested in an answer, I'll give you one.
What you do is you get her some help. Part of the marriage vows are "to have and to hold," and "to hold" means, yes, to consummate the marriage and to have a sex life.
So, you take your wife to a Christian counselor who has experience in dealing with people who have frigidity.
And you stay married. And you have hope and faith in the Lord.
That is what you do.
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If "you find out there's no sex," you don't have a marriage. A marriage needs to be consummated.
2006-08-28 03:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Gestalt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to explain to the groom the latest research which has been done by scientists. They have discovered a food which reduces a woman's sex drive by 90% - it is called Wedding Cake.
2006-08-28 07:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by U.K.Export 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were true, then just ask her if she "diddles" and enjoys it. If she does, cool, means she's in touch with her pleasures, in more ways than one, hehe. If not, then ask why she hasn't diddled, and ask if she can try it. Hopefully she does and enjoys it.
I believe in pre-marital chastity, so at SOME point before the marriage, sex talk is absolutely necessary.
2006-08-28 05:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Dolores G. Llamas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You work through it together, because one would presume you married her because you love her and not just so you could nail her. It is a state of mind that therapy can help, but if you are thinking with your "other head" only then I'd say find someone else.
2006-08-28 03:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't consummate the marriage,,"don't go through with the sex" and get an anullment,, or just be patient and understanding and go slow and gentle
2006-08-28 04:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by Marvin C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, there is so much more to marriage then sex. Second, if it is a God ordained and blessed marriage, everything is blessed... including the sex.
2006-08-28 03:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by 4CHRIST 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, most women don't necessarily enjoy that first time that much, to be honest...
2006-08-28 03:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by angk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has it ever occured to you that maybe you dont do it for her?
2006-08-28 03:33:14 · answer #10 · answered by zzz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋