when do you think its time to moe out of mommy 's house and never look back? what advise do you give to someone who wants to move in with their lover?
2006-08-27 20:24:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be sure it is 100% love on both sides and not just lust.
2006-08-27 20:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by theswarm666x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never time to never look back. You should always think of your mommy's house as a refuge because the world is very unforgiving and things happen.
Thinking about moving in with a lover, ask yourself why and write all the answers down. Realize that all relationships end at some point: either you die or they die or you leave or they leave. If moving in with this person truely feels like the right thing for you to do, then perhaps you should. However, adding someone to your bank account without being married is a GRAVE mistake! Just trust me on that one, lol.
2006-08-28 03:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by BBQribs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is to have your own place rathie than move in with someone else...especially a lover. If things goes sour then you have to go crawling back to mama.
Consentrate on becoming self suficient...that way you will be your own boss. Moving in with a boyfriend mearly means that you are simply transfering your dependency from mom to him.
One other thing...You might want to rethink the thought of "never looking back on mom". If you've never been on your own then there is a lot to learn in that department. Mom's may be overbearing but they have been there and can supply a lot of knowledge and plain ole good common sense.
To answer your question of when is it time to move out...is when you have what it takes to take care of yourself.
Thats the time when you have to "shut up...and put up"(;< ).
2006-08-28 03:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are goingt to move from your mother's house to a house with your love you definetely want to make sure you can live with your lover because you do not want to have to go back to your mother's house..Maybe you should think about getting a place of your own before you live with someone else ...
2006-08-28 03:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one has to be adult and financially independent to move out of parent's house. but why you do not want to look back . in course of time you can have nice relationship with mom and also with your lover
2006-08-28 03:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
america is the only country in the world were children blaime all ther troubles on ther parents a parents job is to raise you to take care of yourself and stupid to move in with lover try it on your own create some character of your own first
2006-08-28 03:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you'll look back. Someone loves you and raised you and wants a relationship with you.
My advice: Don't ever be economically dependent.
2006-08-28 03:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by dey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to move in you should marry. Otherwise, who would buy the cow when they can get the milk for free?
2006-08-28 03:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, AFTER YOU GET YOUR H.S. DIPLOMA THEN GET A GOOD PAYING JOB/S, THEN DECIDE WHO YOU CAN BE ROOMMATES WITH. HOPEFULLY YOUR ROOMMATE HAS A JOB/S. THEN YOU'RE GOOD TO FLY OUT OF YOUR NEST.
2006-08-28 03:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay on ur moms good side cause u never know, i do from experience.
2006-08-28 03:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by bookit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋