I've liked this woman for almost a year now. I didn't want to tell her I liked her cause she's with a guy and has 4 kids with him. She found out cause I told a friend when I was drunk and she told her. In the beginning she started flirting with me all the time at work. (By the way I work with her) Then we started hanging out once a week after work with some other friends from work. She'd always tell me how much she hates her boyfriend and wants to leave cause he treats her like crap. I knew she was never gonna leave him and I didn't have a chance with her cause I'm pretty sure she was just flirting with me cause she's an attention whore and I didnt let it bother me much even though I really like her. A few months ago my dad died and now I live alone. Ever since then the only time I'm happy is when I'm around her. She hasn't shown much interest latley and I'm getting really depressed over it. I can't tell if I'm falling in love or i'm just really lonely. No matter what it is it sucks.
2006-08-27 19:57:54 · 13 answers · asked by anto1982 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your probably lonely now, it would be nice if you had someone in your life. Maybe not her but someone. :)
2006-08-27 20:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, you just lost your dad a few months ago, and of course your lonely and depressed.You need to find someone to talk to,and go out with some of your friends, and have some fun.Believe me this well help.What ever you do,stay away from that woman that you work with.She is trouble and back news.You need to find a nice girl and start going out on dates.You have your own life to live,and not to be stuck with 4 kids that are not yours.
Clowmy
2006-08-28 03:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're reading into this woman the wrong way. You going to make yourself crazy thinking this way. And four kids should have told you that. I would find another woman.
2006-08-28 03:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are lonely. and i dont think her boyfriend treats her bad either or she would leave. i thing she just wanted someone to flirt with. go out and have fun somewhere you can meet new people. you will have your moment.
2006-08-28 03:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm...sound like you need to find a new friend. if she hasnt left him yet she never will and if she is teasing you then she aint worth it. find someone that will give you their full attention, someone that will make you happy all the time not just when they want to.
2006-08-28 03:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by joyrider28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I wouldn't dwell in situations like yours. Pull yourself together first then start dating other girls.
2006-08-28 03:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by Xens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just really lonely, hang out with someone other friends
2006-08-28 03:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by phe_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wait till she leaves him make a move or ask her if she wants to go out
2006-08-28 03:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by all_canadin_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on all ready and remember your a bachelor and that has a lot of rights that being a couple dont have. dont be a sucker
2006-08-28 03:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by brakedown61301 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be 3 the person in this relationship
2006-08-28 03:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋