I have scars on my chest which I got from accident, don't you think my boyfriend won't turn off with me if we have sex in the future? It keeps bothering me.
2006-08-27 19:38:37 · 13 answers · asked by roxanne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are self conscience about it then he definately will be. If you aren't self conscience about it and trust him to accept you the way you are you you will have a lot better luck. Everybody is different though, and all of us react in a different way.
My most recent girlfriend had scars and she never wanted to take her blouse off- It was a huge turn-off--the fact that she wouldn't take it off.
Good Luck
2006-08-27 19:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by goepmike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not. One. Bit. Trust everyone on this one. He will NOT be turned off at all. If he were shallow, yes, but I don't think you want a boyfriend who's shallow in the first place.
If anything, he'd value you more and be drawn closer to you. It'll make him feel like he's sworn to protect you from any danger if he truly loves you. On the other hand, it also makes you look like a brave soul, and he ought to admire you for that.
Scars are just scars, they're nothing but marks on the skin and I assure you, everyone's got some type of flaw when it comes to their skin. There are tribes out there who adore scars, but I know you aren't in one, lol. All I'm saying is, you aren't abnormal!
2006-08-28 02:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Θ Chez Θ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not even consider this until you are in love. I am not saying you have to wait until you get married but you seem awful young by your questions. Take some time. Until you are at least in your late teen, early twenties, then your boyfriend is probably just having a problem with raging hormones and will not pay much if any attention to anything except his own urges. He probably will not even see the scars. He will be focused on one thing only. Guess what that will be!
Think about this more!
2006-08-28 02:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by chick a dee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A man who loves you will understand those scars are signs of a tough tramatic experience and that you better for it. If he thinks they are ugly, then you don't need to have him around. If he kisses each one of them and tries to kiss the hurt away? He is a keeper. You are beautiful despite and because of your scars, no matter what.
2006-08-28 02:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you "turn off" if HE were the one with scars??? Talk to him before you go so far as to undress and "be into the moment"...tell him what happened. If he's a real man, who loves you, he will be fine with you as you are
2006-08-28 02:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend truly loves you, then he look past the scars and see the beautiful heart you have.
2006-08-28 02:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy loves you, he'll look beyond the scars because he's interested in you from the inside.
Peace.
2006-08-28 02:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants more than sex then it won't bother him. If he just wants some *** then yeah it will turn him off.
2006-08-28 02:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by ks_stud_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, If he loves you nothing will bother him about you.So don't stress over it.Things will be all right.
Clowmy
2006-08-28 02:44:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it is on having sex for him -it will bother him -but if he really loves u -it will not be a mtter of concern for him .he will understand ur fate and will love u more.good luck
2006-08-28 02:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by trinka905 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋