I love my ex. We broke up because we had a lot of fights. Anyway, he says he needs time to think. I am so in love with him. Should I keep hoping he will come back to me? or just give up?
2006-08-27 19:36:34 · 12 answers · asked by an14341991 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That depends, if the two of you are just going to fight some more what is the point? If you are both willing to work on it and resolve the issues then hang in there.
2006-08-27 19:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such a simplified question and context.
LOVE is a verb. It is not a feeling only, it is all those things you do for the person that makes them smile or feel a little lighter and better.
if you have fights and can't see eye to eye, then why beat your head against the wall? If you want to work it out, then seek good productive counseling and learn to work together! Not against each other and learn compromise. Learn that you are going in the same direction. Care for one another and be a little less selfish...
2006-08-28 02:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Respect his need for some time to think. Do the same. Love isn't enough to hold a relationship together. I know we all want to believe that.......but look around. You need to share common goals, values, be able to communicate, compromise.......you get the picture. Life is pretty tough, and as you start to add marriage, children, life crisis and finances even the best marriages are challanged. If you fight all the time now.....what do you think the future holds??
2006-08-28 02:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never give up, My ex and I were broke up for 7 months and dated other people,but nobody could take his place. We fought alot too,Ive learned to choose my battles and stop bitching about stuff,He learned theres only one of me and he treats me better then ever.Give him space,do not call him. do not get anybody else get a freind,sister,mom and go on a road trip to do something that gets you going.Go to a concert,a coffee house grand opening, or Art galleries something that will get your mind going .give him space and just think about what you can learn from all this.Chances are he will be back.Do it diffrent next time.
2006-08-28 03:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit and work it out - sort out the cirumstances on ur fights - reach n agreement - everything must be clear b4 u deciee again - no point cribbing gain and getting upset the way u are now.
2006-08-28 02:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by mysterious guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give up him...until u know and u feel that he is still love u...there is nothing wrong for hoping...maybe one day he can realize that he cant live w/out u...just give him a time to think and to find himself what is he really wants
2006-08-28 02:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by Sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, we as women spend so much time trying to find out why men behave so badly , stop and check for a minute if maybe its not us that push them in the wrong direction , if you love smeone set them free if they come back it was meant to be ?
2006-08-28 03:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say it but you should probley give up on him/her if he/she really loved you he/she would'ent have left you in the first place he/she should have stayed to try and work it out move on there are plenty more fish in the sea good luck whatever you decide to do.
2006-08-28 02:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time.
2006-08-28 02:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHY SIT AROUND AND WAIT FOR THIS GUY TO DECIDE FOR YOU, WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE?
ARE YOU ASKING TO BE STRUNG ALONG?
GIVE UP AND FIND A GUY WHO IS SO GOOD TO YOU THAT YOU WILL WANT TO CALL ALL YOUR FRIENDS AND BRAG ABOUT HIM.
2006-08-28 02:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋