2006-08-27 19:13:28 · 19 answers · asked by hazel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You can't. Best advice I can give you is just be honest and mature. Try not to destroy her trust in you or she'll keep doing it till you move out.
2006-08-27 19:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by princess_sam_21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is 15 and i sometimes treat her like she is younger.I just don't want her to grow up.Parents have a hard time dealing with their kids getting older because they may feel like they are not needed any more.Ask her what it was like when she was 15 and how did she feel when her parents did the same thing.let her know everything will be OK.Be glad that you have a mom that is there for you and wants to protect you .Not all 15 year old's do.I was on my own at that age,when i needed a parent the most.All you can really do is sit down and have a nice talk about it ,make it fun or whatever your style is.
2006-08-28 02:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by stacey b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you can stop acting like a 4 yr. That is sit down and talk to her. Tell her your feelings, ask her about your body, tell her how you are feeling. You need to talk to her, she really does know you are not 4. That really scares her. Most parents at her age in life understand all to well what your stage of life is all about. She went thru it, she was 15 once. Really not to long ago.
It is hard for her to admit but she knows you are 15. I bet you guys fight most of the time now. You want to spread your wings and fly and she wants to clip your wings and walk.
Well that is normal and it will pass. In the mean time if you just talk to her and open up and talk about your feeling as tell her how delighted you are that she wants to protect you as she does. And she really does want to protect you. Hence that is why you feel like she treats you like a 4 yr.
Good luck
2006-08-28 02:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother loves you and treats you like a child because you are one. You are only 15 and have just begun your life. Listen to your mother because she has been through childhood and being a teenager. You think she won't understand but she will. You two need to have a real good talk about understanding each other and progress.
2006-08-28 02:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with her and tell her just that -- be specific in how she treats you like a four year old, and be specific in how you would like to be treated otherwise. If she's a wise mom, she'll listen and give feedback, and the two of you can come to terms on her accepting the fact that you're growing up.
2006-08-28 02:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by arcman730 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah you are 15 you are really old ...DUH...You are just a kid...Maybe you do things to act like a 4 year old..Give your mom a break ...show her you can act your age and maybe she will...You have a few years to live in the house with your mom so why not try to be her freind...Have you told her lately that you love her and have you given her a hug lately...Try it you will feel better
2006-08-28 02:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She already knows how old you are - give some examples of how she is treating you. This will help us answer. Maybe she is looking for more mature behaviour from you before she starts to treat you different.
2006-08-28 02:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by pugrc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like 15 yrs old. Be responsible and help her around the house.
2006-08-28 03:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by gelo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha.The usually problem.Well,your mom knows what you are 15 but she afraid which some way and she is becoming axcessive.The only thing you can do,is too show to her what you are a good and trustworthy girl and time to time she will understant how you feel.But you can tell her with a nice way,not with voices.The parents when you are tell them with good words something then you can regain the respect which you want.Try it!
2006-08-28 02:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by Michael Angelo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to understand why your mother treats you that way.. i believe there are some reasons why she does that. maybe you are just too special or too precious for her.. i assume that you are her first child or her only daughter or her only child. i believe there is a good reason behind her protectiveness. u have to appreciate that. if you want to get freedom, you have to show her that you are independent ant you can really stand on your own. but remember: mothers know best
2006-08-28 02:25:16 · answer #10 · answered by enigmaticenegue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋