2006-08-27 18:50:40 · 27 answers · asked by bestmom_31 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
"Matthew 5;
32. But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. Depends on the cause"
Whoever wrote this made a wrong ending statment. It doesnt depend on the cause. This is the only way God will alow divorce. If an unsaved marries a saved person and they divorce, the bible says the believer is free. Gods' plan of marriage is far greater a sacret unitin that we dont understand it. if a man is beating his wife then she should get him thrown in jail, help, or even seperate cause God honors seperation over divorce. Other than being divorced fro, an unbeliever, its wrong to remary a divorcee. Its being done all the time but it doesnt make it right. So you think, well if im divorced i cant marry ever again and Christ intended mariage to be till death. Thats why we allow God to put people in our lives for us, not date 10,000 people to find him or her. If we date alot, some will go to far sexually before marriage or somone will get hurt emotionally ect.
2006-08-27 19:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by Airman_P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I notice your ID refers to you being a mom. If your kids live with you, you should be very careful to shield them from the ups and downs of dating, of finding out that someone who seems compatible at first, isn't. They take it harder than you.
If you already have someone in mind, someone you're pretty sure about - go for it.
Ignore the Bible. It may say re-marriage is wrong, but then, it also says a donkey talked to Balaam and that the earth was created in 6 days. The same people that want to hold you to the laws about re-marriage conveniently forget the law about stoning to death children who disrespect their elders (thank goodness)
If you feel the need for intimate companionship, I imagine you can find that easily enough but again, I wouldn't expose your children to this. Don't have your dates, even if intentions are honorable, come to the house.
2006-08-28 02:07:08 · answer #2 · answered by JoeFunSmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, of course it isn't.
While a divorce to many people means that there was a failure, I believe that instead it means that you have an opportunity for learning that you probably really needed.
I recommend that you live with someone for a bit before considering marriage and then decide. Take into account what you like about the person, what you don't like, and understand that you aren't going to be able to really change either. So if you still want to be with someone forever, knowing the above, then go for the marriage.
Love as always,
Sebastian
2006-08-28 01:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by octo_boi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's not wrong but to avoid major conflict, it's better to remarry after your kids are grown and out of the house. i know from personal experience - i'm a stepchild and my mother put her interests first and mine second- those years at home were horrible
2006-08-28 02:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by chit-chaat7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mat 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
Only women i believe
2006-08-28 02:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sky_blue 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, because it would be adultery.
Jesus declared: "Every one who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery" (Luke 16:18, cf. Mark 10:11–12).
Paul said: "Thus a married woman is bound by law to her husband as long as he lives. . . . Accordingly, she will be called an adulteress if she lives with another man while her husband is alive" (Rom. 7:2–3).
2006-08-28 02:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by anabasisx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Marraige is for this life time and not for the next - if this is a religious question, then again I say, No.
I was divorced, I definately plan to remarry.
2006-08-28 01:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, it is every individual's right to get remarried at any time, according to the law.
2006-08-28 01:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by pyj 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
what and who said it was wrong?
why live their limitations on what you can be if the marriage didn't work out?
69 percent of all marriages fail in the usa, so move on and take care of your loved ones and yourself.
you will.
getit
2006-08-28 02:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by getit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible is only good for one thing: TOILET PAPER.
Personally if a divorce has happened through no fault of her own (like the husband left her for whatever reason that is usually only known to him), why shouldn't she move on?
I reject any religion that wouldn't allow anyone to move on after an unsuccessful marriage.
2006-08-28 01:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by imagineworldwide 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋