I feel antimidated by pretty women, though i've been told many times that im attractive. i work out to compensate for my shyness and i have a pretty nice body but it doesnt give me confidence. Im also pretty well equipped. Im very caring and sensitive when its needed and have a good sense of humor. How can I overcome this major inconvinience?
2006-08-27 18:43:46 · 20 answers · asked by Zanzibar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's all about self confidence. A girl appreciates a guy who is sure of himself...but not too sure. Know what I mean?
Before you can let anyone else know you are worth it, you have to feel that way about yourself. I used to be shy...and then I just started to pretend that I wasn't....sometimes I had to sort of force myself...but it's all gone now. Has been for some time...give it a try. Good luck!
2006-08-27 18:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by loubean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people warm up to a sese of humor. Be funny. The most important thing is to not wait too long before you ask someone out. Once you hit the "friend" catagory you're screwed. Just be relaxed as you would with a close friend. All anybody can say to you is no. It's not the end of the world if they do. Remember, everyone has flaws even the pretty ones. Focus on their personality and don't think about their looks. Good luck.
2006-08-27 18:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a virgin? if you are you should not be giving advice about sexual relationships. the best way to over come shyness is to put yourself into the game. realize that the worst that can happen is some girl will blow you off. if you are what you say you should have more self confidence. remember it is just a game. you will win some and lose some. your chances of success are in direct proportion to how many times you try.
2006-08-27 18:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by handyman5218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a possibility that you have social anxiety. Do you get a little nervous at a party? Are you a little nervous when you go out on a date? Are you very self-conscious?
Social Anxiety can be helped by mild medication. If that is the case give your Doctor a call.
2006-08-27 18:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by virginiamayoaunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my oppinion, shyness comes from lack of confidence. Unfortunatly, it's almost impossable to teach yourself confidence, most of the time someone helps you to gain it. Belive in yourself!!! Go get the girl!
2006-08-27 18:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by tearsaponmypillow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you gotta do to overcome ur shyness is to go streaking down a crowded mall
2006-08-27 18:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice talking to people in the mirror. Your confidence will build eventually.
2006-08-27 18:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the Army worked for me!
2006-08-27 18:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by brown 25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the little man in the boat and try to suck his hat off.
2006-08-27 18:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically go have a lot of plastic surgery to try to compensate for your small penis? thats the issue right?? ha ha get over urself plz!!!! no one cares loser!!! SCORE 2 PTS!
2006-08-27 18:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by prettykittybangs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋