Would you take ur gf or bf back after they cheated on you?

Question

Not me , nooo way!

Answer 1

hell no.

Answer 2

Yes I have in the past and I used to think that I wouldn't but real life taught me otherwise. It is so easy to say what you would or wouldn't do but when the moment is upon you, things have a way of not being so cut and dry. I am at a better place in my life now and I don't think that I would be so tolerant of this disrespectful behavior but if I was involved with a man that I thought was decent, loving, respectable, kind, and dependable and we had been together for years and were contemplating marriage...that would be a hard decision. I would want to think that he could change and I'm sure that my mind and my heart would go to war. I don't know which would win. I would hope that my mind would prevail but I can't be certain. And that's being totally honest with you.

Answer 3

People don't 'cheat' on each other. They loose interest in each other. And, when someone has an affair they should have the decency to get up and leave and admit to who they are and what they want out of life.

It's sad to see and hear about people violating their marriage vows and continue to stay married. It's like living a lie, all for the sake of.....the children ?

And, if you don't think your out of marriage 'partner' doesn't talk about what happened, you're living a greater lie and cheating on yourself...

What a fool you have for a partner !

Answer 4

Anyone can make a mistake. Sometimes these mistakes can strengthen a relationship or destroy it. If you are truly committed to this person, you have to ask yourself if you can live with the indiscretion. If you think that you can forgive, then you can start to work on strengthening the relationship. Trust on the other hand will take a while to rebuild but if it is a truly loving relationship, then the indiscretion situation can be overcome with time.

Answer 5

To me a relationship is all about trust and once thats gone whats the pint. I couldnt take them back because I couldnt forget and it would turn me into a jealous suspicious person,somthing I dont want to be. Besides I say if they do it once they will do it again.

Answer 6

nope, my x recently cheated on me for a month and all that month I though it was true love, and only to find out that he was cheating on me with one of his x who happen to be his gf still after what i though i was the only girl he loved..so my answer for this is no way.. I had enough of it..

Answer 7

Nope

Answer 8

Well I have in the past but the jerk is gone now and I will NEVER put myself throgh that again.. There is obviously a reason why someone would cheat on you and they will do it again.

Answer 9

Once a cheater, always a cheater. They obviously don't deserve you, because they are pigs and deserve to wallow in mud. They are disgusting animals, but we feel sorry for them, so we dump them, but only after waiting at least long enough to get our hand on their credit cards!!!

Answer 10

First i would have to look at our relationship.2 i would have to see if there was anything i done or didnt do to cause the problem.3 it would take time to forgive and forget.4 after i tryed all three and i still could not trust or forgive yes i would........

Answer 11

1 important thing though.

you need to know if she or he ever hinted to you he or she likes another person.

if so, then he or she is not cheating on you but is having difficulties telling you.

but no matter, it is best to leave her or him alone as he or she is having troubles already and love triangles hurt badly, really badly.

mercury of love