should i married a girl who has a relationship with 4 or 5 people before...?

Question

need an honest advice

Answer 1

Yes, why not?

Answer 2

Her past relationships should have nothing to do with your decision, unless there were children from it. Then you would have to decide if you want to be a step-father or not.
If she hasn't had children, contracted a disease, or anything else, then it makes no difference. Dating, engagements, are broken all the time. I'm sure she isn't your first girlfriend. (Even if you are a virgin.)


If you are saying that she was married 4-5 times, then maybe think it over a bit. There is a reason none of them worked, and it can't all be the other men. Talk to her about why the marriages failed. If she blames it all on her exes, then you know that she is unable or unwilling to take responsibility. That doesn't make for a happy life when you are the one who has to do everything to keep her happy without getting anything in return.

Answer 3

So long as she not "still in one of those relationships" and you love her? YES.

However, the FACT that you're asking this question makes me concerned. So, its not her in the relationship I'm concerned with, its you. You need to "let go of her past and make sure that you don't bring it up in a negative way to her." If your going to bother her with it in the future, please do this girl a favor and leave now. If you can love her and give her the respect a wife deserves from a husband, then marry her and never bring it up again.

So, its all in your hands. We can't answer this question, only you can, sorry. Think of her future as well as yours (if you truly love her).

Answer 4

What about you? are you pure enough to declare that your would be had relationship with 4 or 5 people. you are curious enough to investigate about her past. if the girl confessed with you and if you are magnanimous enough to forgive her you can marry her. otherwise say No to her proposal instead of advertising or telling to others.(sorry friend do not feel hurt)

Answer 5

NO..you should go to a nunnery and try to find a girl who has never even been around men at all. Preferably one who was taken to the nunnery as a child so she has never even ever seen a man.
Then you can be sure that she is the one for you.

Answer 6

Her having other past relationships is good. It just means that she's been with other men and now has a good idea of what qualities she is looking for in a husband. Be happy that she won't have to wonder what other men have to offer. Here's the good news...She chose you!

Answer 7

and by relationships..you mean married or like just being going out with them

cause if this person has been married 4-5 then no..chances are that you guys are going to get divorced..

Answer 8

yes it will make her more tolerant of you, your not perfect.
\Sex like any human endeavor required knowledge and practice she brings experience to the marriage bed.
mind you she might also know your a dud in bed and hung like a mouse.
A real man would never be worried by this, all that matters is she is with you now and she is faith full.
if that is the worse thing about her your doing fine

Answer 9

dude.. nowadays most 16 girls have had a "relationship" with 4 or 5 people..and it's pretty much a given that any girl 21, already has... and if u ever find one that hasn't been.. and isn't a religious fanatic, send her my way...

Answer 10

if she was married 4-5 times then no. but if she was just dating 4-5 other guys thne why not?

Answer 11

I think even you are of that type only.....that's why you want to marry her..

If not why you want to spoil your life? If you marry her, what is the garuntee that she will be maintaining you only...? (without knowing you she might be having false relatioships with someone else also)

Please dont marry and spoil your life