black women-white men?

Question

I was just talking to a black lady and she was telling me how she had all these bad relationships with black men etc...and she was looking for a "good guy", but he had to be white, because they made better money and she like the lifestyle and they treat black women better. it some good black men out here, and i was telling her that i was one. i dont drink or smoke, im a good guy etc....but she refused to here it. and i was telling her that its not like white men dont do dirt or dont cheat or anything like that, but she didnt want to hear it. all she cared about was "dating a white guy" it was upsurd. she got real upset. no one race treat a women better than the other one. i think whte guys get the benefit of the doubt too much sometimes, and they do dirt just like anyone else. what ya think?

Answer 1

I agree with you. There is cheating and disrespect in all races. She should consider the types of guys for which she settles. If they all cheat, then she should upgrade her expectations.

Answer 2

I'm white, and I think your friend has just had so many bad relationships, she just needs a change. You may be a good guy, buy women can be stupid with their choices. I don't think that drinking and smoking makes a guy bad, cheating isn't that good for a man's reputation. She is wrong when it comes to White men not cheating and making more money, that all depends on the individual.

I will agree with you that white guys get the benefit of the doubt, its helped me out many times.

Answer 3

Of COURSE doin dirt is spread pretty evenly over the races!
Sounds like your lady has a rare personal taste, and she's afraid to admit it to herself.
She shouldn't be: Nothing wrong with attraction to white skin any more than liking brown eyes or red hair!
And so few black women like white men. I mean they don't even see us as men, just like un-people. At least that's how they treat us in Phoenix.

Answer 4

gender imbalances in interracial relationship are depressing for the gang being surpassed over. no count if it is asian adult men, black women, or white adult men, while one team is being left in the back of it is tousled and depressing. between the black and white races, black adult men date white women lots better than any incorrect way around. i'm no longer saying it is a foul element or a reliable element, in simple terms pointing out the data. while white adult men and black women pair up, it reduces the severity of this unhappy imbalance and decreases the dearth of girls attainable to white adult men led to by utilising black adult men.

Answer 5

I agree with you one hundred percent; men of all races have been known to do dirt. I don't believe that one race has a monopoly on being bad. How unfortunate that she believes this way. I think your friend could be in for one very rude awakening.

Answer 6

I think judging anyone based on their race is just plain stupid all mankind was created equal. Just because one man's skin color is different than another's doesn't change the fact that he is a man and can have the same faults as another man. Women are the same just because their skin is different doesn't mean that one is better than the other and vica-versa.

Answer 7

She's an a s s hole don't you see that she only cares about money and skin color ? I actually think she might the one treating hers ex-partners badly . Forget about her and look for something real . the color of the skin doesn't matter .
Good luck .

Answer 8

if the love is there my sister loves her man has two chidren and is white he is black but that was lables too them it was hard they are happy black woman white man my self a sister scares the hell out of me i guess respect the person not the color is the answer

Answer 9

I agree that their are some good black men out there and I haven't gave up on them.

Answer 10

All people have the potential for good and evil. It is a choice they make on their own.