he said he fely very sorry about the situation. he kissed my sister. lips to lips.
2006-08-27 18:20:51 · 12 answers · asked by Joy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hope not. Why would you believe that he wouldn't do it again?
2006-08-27 18:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by Fighter of Foo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the situation was and if you feel that he is a cheating type of guy. Could you ever live happy knowing what happened and with your sister? Was it just a one time mistake and do you trust him not to cheat on you with anyone else? Does he make excuses for why it happened or does he own up to it and know that it was the worst thing possible. If he owns up then there is a chance. If you guys happen to get married talk about it before the weddding. If your gut feeling tells you he will never cheat again in any way, emotional or physically with your family member or stranger, then forgive and forget. It only happened three months ago but if it is still where you are thinking about it constantly then there isn't a whole bunch of hope, but if you are starting to think about it less and know just want things to work then it most likely will. Are you sure that is all that happened? I would love to know more about the situation so I could give better advice. And it was with someone that you will see all the time and for the rest of your life. Just pay close attention to their body language and eye contact and try to reenact the incident with her or someone he don't know and you trust to tell you what happens. He will have to earn back trust even if you have to pay more attention to where he goes and with who and account for most of the time for a Little while and be a detective if this man is worth it. It takes a lot of time and effort to see if you can get over this and Don't think about it all the time.
2006-08-27 18:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by pinkaaa92780 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have only one question for you...Would you have ever cheated on him, and kissed his brother if he had one? I think not, at least not if you have any morals. His kissing your sister is way way way past any forgiveness. He not only cheated with another girl, he chose to cheat with your sister. He had to have known the trouble that this would have caused for you and your sister. You need to stay away from this guy, he's not a good person. Now, to get to the real issue. Now that he's out of the picture, I sure hope that your sister didn't allow this kiss to happen. If she did, that is really bad. She may be your sister, and I'm sure you love her, but I would be very hurt that she could allow this to happen. That is one sister that I would keep my eyes on, and most likely learn to keep my secrets to myself.She'd have to earn my trust back...
2006-08-27 18:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister?! That's low. I say not to forgive him, just because he's already broken your trust badly, there's no sure way to tell that he won't go and do it again. As the saying goes, once a cheater always a cheater.
Course that's not to say that people aren't allowed to make mistakes. It could be something that he feels genuinely sorry about, and something that it definitely not normal of his character.
You know him best, if you love him enough to give him another go, by all means. But don't be surprised if it happens again. And if you take him back and he does do it again, dump him faaaast.
2006-08-27 18:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by koala988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has problems..........and so does your sister[sorry] You asked. leave him, now, run and do not walk or collect $200 if you pass go, if he will kiss your sister he will kiss anyone. Family, that is a line No one should cross and you really need to be talking to your sister, the better question is how will you be able to trust her ever again? Good luck !
2006-08-27 18:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by tpepper22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is a cheating bastard and will come btw you and your sister. If he dared to lock lips with your sis, think of how many lips he has locked for the past 3 months...
Dump him.
2006-08-27 18:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very few people get such occasion to come to know about the real picture of a person.Just leave him .Have courage and believe in yourself.
2006-08-27 18:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has your sister apologized?
2006-08-27 18:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you forgiven your sister? ...that is the question!!!
2006-08-27 18:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not talk to him at all.
2006-08-27 18:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by aracely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋