Short and simple ,**** whoever got **** to talk ,I not even telling you guys the situation ,but the thing is it happened ,I **** my man's friend ,and he deserved as far as I am concerned ,but he's not my ex because of that lol ,but anyway his friend still want to get with me ,andi feel bad as hell,I am still somewhat attracted to him ,but he wants a relationship ,how could I be with him and I was with his friend for almost 9 yrs .I don't know if I should let my ex know his friend not really his friend .
2006-08-27 17:46:40 · 28 answers · asked by Killaboo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah yeah I know it was a dirty thing to do ,but Its done ,andi don't want to be with his friend ,how do I tell him to leave me alone ,when he claims he loves me ,
2006-08-27 18:02:09 · update #1
Why is it you think your ex's friend is not really his friend? Because he slept with you and wants to do it again? Is that a problem? The concept of EX means that you are free and so is he.
Why do you want to tell you ex? If it is to hurt him, then it will work but you'll also have to live with that. If not to hurt him then why?
2006-08-27 17:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're not going to be in a relationship with the friend then no. I do think he has a right to know what kind of friend he has but it would only cause him pain and it'd be alot of drama and then he'll be seeing also what kind of person you are. If you are going to continue seeing the friend he's going to find out one way or the other.
2006-08-28 00:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by desi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
imean i think u should tell ur ex that his friend really isnt a friend only if ur not going to be with that friend but if u are going to be with that frien then ont tell ur ex i mean keep it on the dl because then ur ex will call u a hoe and feel like both of u betrayed him which in reality u guys did but if u still care for ur ex as well then dont tell him
2006-08-28 00:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by t t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be good to reveal everything into the open. At least all three of you would be able to put each one in the class each belongs to; you may even succeeded in getting a fight underway and may even get them to hate each other. Of course, we must remember your conscience that you fell a tinge of guilt. Boy you are in a mess
2006-08-28 00:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya know what you should do whatever feels right and if ya really like yo ex's friend let em know does it really matter it isnt like tha movies where he will lash out and kill ya or sumthin
2006-08-28 00:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wholeheartedly suggest you keep your mouth shut.
What would be the point of creating the chaos and drama unless you were to get some sort of personal satisfaction from that?
2006-08-28 00:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask urself this question u will get the answer... its not about who feels bad ... its about whom u love?... if u love ur ex u won't sleep with his friend... if u love his friend u must let ur ex know and breakup with him and go on with this guy...
so choice is urs honey.... all the best
2006-08-28 00:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you feel the need of telling? You should first decide the objective of your actions. If the same helps you then go for it.
2006-08-28 00:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by Abhijit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's never a good idea to kiss and tell... Keep your mouth shut and stay away from that man.
2006-08-28 00:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jason 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you were over your ex, and got it on with his friend, i don't see how it is possibly anybody's business. wtf kind of head-trips do people you know play on each other? lastly, i truly don't see even IF your ex and his friend started swapping stories about your holes and what you did with them that it would mean that their friendship was not genuine.
You WERE over, right?
No harm, no foul. Don't ask, don't tell.
2006-08-28 00:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋