How do I tell my baby that he is not satisfying me sexually?

Answer 1

Show him your Question!

Answer 2

Very carefully. You don't want to make him feel like less of a man. You could try buying some books on new positions or a different out look on a sexualy intimate relationship. If you do that just tell him that you feel like you will satisfy HIM better if the two of you try some new moves and thought it would be erotic to find those new things to do together. If he tells you that you satisfy him plenty give the little winey thing and say but I'm afraid I will bore you at some point and you won't tell me so can't we please just try this. Just to make me feel better. That should work like a charm. He doesn't need to know it has anything to do with his inablilities and if he figures out that it does it will more than likely just cause more problems because of his embaracement. Some people like to add videos of different types to there sexual agenda. I don't but there are some videos that are for teaching instead of simple porn if you wanted to try that.

Answer 3

when you two are making love just tell him baby let's try different things, and when you like it moan a little louder and say baby that feels so good and after it is over say we have to do it like that more often. It is up to you to teach him the way to satisfy you, I'm sure he is not a mind reader or you would have no problems. Just let him know he satisfies you but you would like to try different things. You don't want to say baby you don't satisfy me because that would really hurt an ego and he may never recover. If you like it harder, while you two are doing it talk to each other and say oh baby I want it harder or if you are not a talker wrap your legs around his waist and grab his butt and push him into you and move your hips faster and he will get the hang of it hopefully, and if you want it slower and softer wrap your legs around his waist again and hold his hips and guide them with your hips slower. and try doggie-style, on the side, your butt to his penis and after the fun is over let him know baby that was the greatest. but it would help if the question was more specific and I could tell you more of the correct answer.

Answer 4

you should never outright tell someone that they are sexually inadequate. However, open lines of communication, encouragement, and coaching on what makes you feel good can help reach your goal. If he truly cares about you then his biggest concern is satisfying you. never say that something isn't good enough, but suggest new and exciting ways to make it better. encouragement is the key! You break the ice by opening the line of communication. Ask him what feels good to him and what he would like to try. For all you know, he may be feeling the same way. By verbalizing your feelings, the intimacy and passion will become stronger in and out of the bedroom.

Answer 5

In the first place, you shouldn't be having sex with "your baby" outside of marriage and in the second place, the more a woman love a man, the less she could give a hoot about it.

So, the question is really moot and the answer is that you need to reconsider some things.

Answer 6

Tell him bluntly that he sucks in the sack.... Oh, you meant without hurting his little baby feelings. Look, it's cool that you care and all, but not telling him about the problem is just hurting your relationship. Sit him down and tell him what's up. He'll appreciate the honesty if he's any kind of man you should be with.

Answer 7

You should tell him he's not satisfying you or you will make him have low self esteem. Instead try to suggest some other positions or ways that you think would help you out more.

Answer 8

Just tell him and show him what you like. But first, have him use condoms and you better get a supply of the "morning after" plan B pills, if you are over 18. If you are not, you are playing a dangerous game with both of your lives!

Answer 9

Tell him what he does that you like, and what you don't. Experiment usually something will come up (sorry) that both of you like. The biggest problem with sex is the lack of communication. Try toys, more oral, maybe a cucumber? Try different positions, some are more stimulating to the female than others.

Answer 10

Say: Baby, you're not satisfying me sexually...

Answer 11

hey baby, you are not satisfying me sexually. i need to be dominated in the bedroom.


something to that extent. just tell him and then tell him what you want.