We broke up June 3 of this year.. Because i ended up having to move like 1 hr away.. I was at my sisters when he broke up with me.. Well in July he stopped me cause he seen me ...and gave me his new cellphone number and wanted mine.. Now he calls me alot..and i dont know how to tell him how i feel... I mean I didnt have a car and he didnt soo we wouldnt have no way to see each other..and now i do...and he does to..
I'm scared to call him and tell him how i feel and ask him if he thinks it'll work out...I also talked to him on the phone tonight and he was telling me that he was single now then he got quite like he wanted to say something but didnt know how to say it....
We were together for a year and a half...and we were perfect.. Soo please give me some advice
2006-08-27 17:28:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, the best advice is for you to be honest and open up to him. No one can tell you whether this can work long distance or not, and the two of you won't either unless you try.
But it won't work if you're not honest, if you're not transparent, or if you never give it a chance.
2006-08-27 17:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by Timothy W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You thought you were perfect but he broke up with you when you moved away.
NOT GOOD!
But after he got a car then he was comfortable calling you on the phone.
Wierd!
You see, you could have kept the bond if only you had promised to write to each other. Are you teenagers who got pulled apart when your parents moved?
Okay, I'll give that as teens you don't have the trust and security of 25 year olds but, my girlfriend and I were apart for two years while I was in the army and all we had was letters back and forth. Try it. Sometimes a letter allows you to look at your words and throw them away if you don't like them, not like talking on the phone. You can change a letter over and over until it says what you really mean.
good luck
2006-08-28 00:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Harley Charley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have so been in this situation... actually kinda still am... my advice is... tell him... i no its gunna b like the hardest thing 2 do... cause its like the hole crawling back to the ex thing but if u really love him and u can see being with him for the rest of ur life... go 4 it... what have u got to lose? and i think it sounds like he is pretty keen... i think u no what 2 do... Good luck and hope it all works out 4 the Best! :)
2006-08-28 00:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is see him and talk about it. Remember, love isn't just about finding the right person, but it's also about finding the right time. But an hour away isn't that bad. If you're both willing to be flexible you could make it work.
2006-08-28 00:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by maskedlioness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, you need to take a risk and tell him how much you miss having him in your life. If he gave you his cell number, then it's obvious he still wanted you to keep in touch with him. It was his way of saying, "Call me!"
2006-08-28 00:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by luvpink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call him up and tell him, or better yet ask him to dinner and tell him... the worst thing that he could say is no... Why would you ever go on with out knowing what could have been.
2006-08-28 00:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by nicolelee2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would just come out with it. All you have to do is say what you fell and then if he dosnt fell the same way then you know he just wants to be single.
2006-08-28 00:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE HONEST WITH HIM AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL
YOU BOTH HAVE MADE THE FIRST MOVE BY TALKING
SO GO FROM THERE AND SEE WHAT HAPPEN, YOU MAY
NEVER KNOW HOW HE FEEL UNTIL YOU BOTH SIT DOWN'AND TALK TO EACH OTHER.
2006-08-28 00:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the direct approach--just tell him how you feel. If you don't tell him, how is he supposed to know that you want to be with him.
2006-08-28 00:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is calling you alot, he still wants you. Tell him how you feel.
2006-08-28 00:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by Kitty L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋