Ok, this is the deal:
I worked with a girl who was engaged
She hit on me.
Alot.
We never EVER did a thing
I wasn't exactly interested in her too say the least
After about a month of NOTHING I decided that I should tell her finance about what she was doing.
I did and ended up getting fired because they didnt want her and I working together and she had been there longer than I had.
Now do you people think I did the right or wrong thing?
2006-08-27 17:22:24 · 10 answers · asked by tampabay5400 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should file a discrimination suit. If the harassment went on long enough that you felt it necessary to tell her fiance and you told her to stop yet she did not, you have been harassed. Her time in service should have had no bearing on it whatsoever. Yes, you did the right thing. Don't let the company railroad you now.
2006-08-27 17:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u did the right thing! thank god for people like u i wish in my situation the same had happened....i was engaged and my ex left me three weeks before the wedding for a girl we were both friends with ...we all work together and now i have to see them together every damn day...i wish she had said something to me long before i found this out...u did a great thing but i think its messed up that u got fired!
2006-08-27 17:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by pezilove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the WRONG thing. You don't tell the fiance. You deal with her exclusively and tell her that her advances are unwelcome, and if she continues then that would constitute as sexual harrassment on her part. Then she would have been reprimanded and that would have made her leave you alone for good. You still would have your job today.
2006-08-27 17:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by kttmfr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want your job or compensation until u get another threaten them with a sexual abuse case or go to your states work force and report them if she was hitting on u and they fired you there are laws agents that
2006-08-27 17:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by matthew l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about the consequences before you told someone else what was going on. You should have kept your knowledge to yourself.
2006-08-27 17:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right thing
2006-08-27 17:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really should have stayed out of their business and not said anything to him. it was more of a matter between you and the girl. you should have spoke with her and put an end to it, not run and tattle on her.
2006-08-27 17:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by jessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it would have been better to stay out of it... I would have let it known that I wasn't interested and then let him/her hang theirselves... you might still have your job if you hadn't interferred
2006-08-27 17:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should have told her to stop u did the right thing
2006-08-27 17:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by nee-nee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely wrong that is your place to say something you should have told your coworker what she was doing was wrong..well i hoped you learned your lesson and dont do it to someone else
2006-08-27 17:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by net385 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋