i am a really attractive 20 yr old and single no one understands why guys dont ask me out iam really nice person but men shy away from me why?
2006-08-27 17:15:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just like women, men can also feel intimidated when in the presence of someone very attractive. Most of the time they can feel as though you are unattainable and why would you waste time on someone like them. Alot of times, men naturally assume that if you are attractive then you are taken. If you see someone that you would like to get to know, then strike up a conversation with him and let HIM know you are interested. Good luck!
2006-08-27 17:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they are too shy to approach you to find out your not just a beauty but youre also a nice person...its their loss. Perhaps they feel less 'shot down' if they approached a girl not quite as 'fair'? Dont let it discourage you. Take your time and make your own moves on anyone you choose. You apparently get the pick of the litter!! hehe
2006-08-27 17:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is YES, and the word is "intimidated, afraid, scared or COWARDLY" (not just "shy").
However, try to understand that it's not always without reason, because love is like a game of hardball. You can get hit and it doesn't feel good. Look at what happened to the average Joes.
2006-08-27 17:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes guy are scared to ask out hot girl ,but it also depend on how
treat people are not hot . guy don't likes when a girl thing she
better than every other girl ugly or not. also how are your
standards if the guy has to be movie star perfect then your not
giving ever guy a fair changes. and then it just might that you so
confident that it scare us away . guys in gerenal like to thing they
are filling a hole in your that you need so badly filled. what i
mean is let them thing that your vonerable.Well because every is
different your problem could be alot of thing I just to give a guys
sent i am one but to real give you good solid advise i would
have to know personaly
2006-08-27 17:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by dvd_altena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i tell u whysome of us think of thing like why would she talk to me or why would she want to know me it is the look thing on how the guy looks i mean they might not look hansome or something but i know this in person some girl things of looks but not what is on the inside where it really count that what love should be on the feeling on the inside of a person that why guys dont ask out really pretty laids
2006-08-28 03:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by danielceal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men don't think that they are good looking enough and so they don't want to be rejected. most of the time if they guy knows hes good looking then he is arrogent and is an ***. if u think you like a guy and he's checking you out then go talk to him and he'll feel less uneasy and will feel a lot better cuz hey a hottie is talking to him. you will make his day. we are just shy creatures don't hold it against us. just try to understand us. we're simple believe me. haha
2006-08-27 17:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by ryan s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some are intimidated by a beautiful woman...or some may see you as conceited. You may feel you are really attractive, but others might not see you that way.
2006-08-27 17:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth, it's probably because they don't have enough confidence in theirselves. I'm one of those shy guys, but I'm probably not your type because I'm 19 yrs old.
2006-08-27 17:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by Coche 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A truly outstanding person (men or women) can be very intimidating to the opposite sex.
2006-08-27 17:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are nervous because they have never asked out a girl or because you are hot, they think you will shoot them down
2006-08-27 17:18:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋