2006-08-27 17:12:26 · 19 answers · asked by hopeless 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I would be very very angry and I'd be finding myself a new best friend.And if my boyfriend went for it, I'd be finding a new boyfriend, also.
2006-08-27 17:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, I think your choice of words in this question are all wrong. Cuz see, a bestfriend would never do that. She was just a trifflin whore who didnt have enough courage to go out there and meet a man on her own. I would be very upset with the both of them but I wouldnt let them see me dwell on it. I would move on to another friend and another man. But kill them with kindness, because it'll only make them feel worse about their decision and within no time both of them will be at your doorstep begging for forgiveness. But dont give in, only say, " I completely understand, I expected you to do something like that!" while smiling. That'll really throw them off!
2006-08-27 18:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by sweetness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a really bad subject cause your not only losing a boy friend but your also losing a so called best friend. It hurts at first i know but you will rise above it. Remember to not let them see your pain but more like your disgust in them. Dont ever take either one of them back as a friend cause they done it once theyll do it again. Good luck and sorry there are freaking people in this world that do this.
2006-08-27 17:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by needsum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, a best friend would never intentionally do that.
Second, a boyfriend is not a possession - you do not own him.
Third, if he was happy where he was at, he would stay there.
Fourth, if he was mature, then he would have told you he was unhappy and tried to work it out before he so happily rode off into the sunset with your so-called best friend.
Fifth, I would be crushed that my so-called best friend would come on to my boyfriend and that he thought so little of our relationship that he took off like a rocket rather than work on our relationship.
You don't need either one of them if they are both that shallow.
2006-08-27 17:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. She's not really a best friend, but a nasty acquaintance, whom you mistakenly thought was a friend.
2. Eliminate your contact with the both of them. They are both bad news, and have little integrity.
3. Learn from this experience about people. You should be familiar with the red flags of it.
Good Luck and Warm Regards.
2006-08-31 17:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by mitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd feel like an idiot for spending emotional energy caring about either of them.
Then they would be evicted from my world and I would find real friends.
No reason to waste anymore energy caring about those people.
2006-08-27 17:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends.
Did she actually 'steal' him? If she actually decided 'Well, I want him, screw our friendship' then I'd feel horrible.
If it was because he was in love with her, and not me, I wouldn't consider that stealing. She didn't intend to, she never meant any harm. I wouldn't feel so bad.
2006-08-27 18:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by Pixie-elf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to start with she is not ur best friend if shes got ur man and theres no such thing as stealing ur man u cant steal somethig u never had
2006-08-27 17:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by sandy k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Horrible. It is one of my personal rules never to take someone's boyfriend, and never date a best friend's ex.
2006-08-27 17:15:45 · answer #9 · answered by Short and sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd feel awful and I'd miss them too. Because it's time to walk away. Peace and Good Luck.
2006-08-27 17:16:28 · answer #10 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋