I just moved to New York from New Orleans, & I don't know why I feel a little homesick. Maybe I'm just worried that my things might get destroyed in another hurricane. My family was abusive to me, & I don't know why they keep being in my dreams every night. I don't wanna go back, & I love New York, but I miss my belongings. I couldn't afford to take everything with me.
2006-08-27 17:09:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
i feel sorry for u sweetheart. just try to focus on the things that make u happy now. try not to look back. For a week or two u will feel depressed but it goes away and ur new place will become home. wish u the best....good luck
2006-08-27 17:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by Hey you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it seems like everything is so different. Find something that you used to from back in New Orleans. And you have a life, live it. I totally understand why you feel have to feel guilty. I moved from a small town to a big city. My parents didnt want me to go but did i listen no because it's a growing pain. Another chapter in your book, make it as beautiful and as colorful as you want. If everything is still going well go back and get your stuff. good luck. and have fun
-Ash
2006-08-28 00:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by ash223 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get QUALITY friends... listen to good music... STAY BUSY... make your new stomping grounds home. Nothing wrong with being home sick. Just keep moving forward and thank God for every day the sun comes up. You never know what tomorrow could bring so Carpe Diem. Set goals and WORK to accomplish them. You'll be very happy you did. Look out world... here you come!
2006-08-28 00:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by 109stitches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homesick for your belongings? or your family? If it's yr family, give them a call and hopefully u'll be able to solve the issue between u and them. If you miss your stuffs at home, well......either u forget about it or go home and own it back.
2006-08-28 00:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
belongings schelongings
you're not homesick then, so change the attitude
you'll get new stuff your whole life and get rid of stuff your whole life, so get a grip
if you're happy where you are, get new stuff and leave the unhappy past along with your junk behind you.
its good for you to rid yourself, purge, if you will, to let go bad, unhappy feelings about the family you now are finally away from, right?
2006-08-28 00:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by snickers_ha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 ways.
1.) Go Home for a visit
2.) Get in trouble with the law, and get arrested and thrown in county jail. You can make friends with Big Georgette and she will make you feel at home.
or
3.) have a lobotomy :-)
2006-08-28 00:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by MegaMark_cute_but_too_easy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try visiting another river town along the mississippi. you could get the feel of a rivertown without the fear of a hurricane.
2006-08-28 00:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by skurj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to those you love and love you back, have happy pictures of good times with your old homelife, get busy with your new life and make new york your new home
2006-08-28 00:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by fourplums 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
save up money so u can have ur belongings shipped up..even if u have to do it a couple at a time
2006-08-28 00:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by xoqtpie18ox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and make new friends to take your mind off of home
2006-08-28 00:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋