I met and dating this guy from online dating site for 1-2 months. He asked to be exclusive espicially about sex . Anyway, we had argument a week ago and I found out that he was on-line again (active profile). I asked him and he said it was mistake from the site. Some people told me that was possible. However, it has been 1 week , he hasn' t turn it off yet. And I believe he know that I know. But I haven't asked him about it yet. During this week, we went out just once and he said he was busy on the weekend. I asked him if everything Ok, he said yes and kept promising that we will get together for sure. He is a type of guy who speak his mind all the time and we already agreed that if either one of us wanna end this relationship , we will let other know up front. So should I ask him again? or give him sometimes? I know I am paranoid but I don't want to make mistake of ending it if nothing is going on. Guys, would you tell bf/gf upfront to end it or just keep avoiding'em?
2006-08-27 17:05:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Always trust your gut feeling! If you think he is up to something- he probably is.
Even if you are up front- he will not tell you the truth- guys hate to see you cry or fight. I would back off a bit- give him space- so if he is up to something - you arent a sloppy second. And if he isnt up to anything- he will come around.
If you were sneaky- you could get another profile name and hit on him- see if he responds- catch him red handed. Dont hate the player- hate the game!- But be smart enough to win the game.
2006-08-27 17:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by KA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually if you suspect something isn't right about a relationship, there's usually something to it. People always say that if the relationship isn't working out to let the other know and they can end things on friendly terms. It just doesn't work out that way though. The person who is distant is afraid of telling the mate and then the mate knows that something is wrong in the relationship which leads to the paranoia feeling. If talking about your feelings hasn't worked, maybe you should tell him that you think that you two need some time apart. Set a time limit. If you haven't heard from him before your time limit is up, then maybe that is your answer. You won't be any worse off than you are now. It will hurt, but time will heal your pain. Good luck...
2006-08-28 00:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, up front...something is going on! Talk to him, ask him what is going on, and ask him if he's wanting to end the relationship!
2006-08-28 00:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes be direct and just ask. Don't beat around the bush. Do it and move on.
2006-08-28 00:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ask him directly better this way but dont be to blunt. read tips on relationships and more on this site
2006-08-28 00:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont date on line girl your better than that and hes probably a creep. and yes blunt is good.
2006-08-28 00:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by a perfectly contradictory cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD JUST BE AS OPEN TO HIM AS HE IS TO YOU,
LET KNOW WHAT GOING. BU IT SOUND LIKE HE OUT
THERE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING BUT ASK HIM. BECAUSE
YOU RIGHT IT MAY BE NOTHING, BUT THEN AGAIN IT MAY
BE SOMETHING THAT YOU NEED TO ADDRESS.
2006-08-28 00:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him in a proper and nice way.
2006-08-28 00:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by richel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confronting him would be a good idea.
2006-08-28 00:10:40 · answer #9 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, ask him directly
2006-08-28 00:08:44 · answer #10 · answered by ani2525 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋