My friend has had an affair w/ a man that is married ..they have been friends and his wife knew about their friendship..it turned into one of those sexual attractions one that would be nothing but sex.he was so nice and friendly she had a good time then all of a sudden she felt left alone.when asked he said his wife dont like him having woman friends . now he stays at a distance but wont really say much to her he just avoids her for the most part?she thinks he should at least take the time to talk to her .Could it be she feels rejected?
2006-08-27 16:59:01 · 7 answers · asked by sueroooo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it could be that she feels rejected, probably because she was rejected. The wife probably caught onto the fact that something was up, and roped him in. Good for the wife. Bad for your friend. But that day was going to come sooner or later. There is no such thing as "nothing but sex" when it's with a married man - he is already tied down to his wife and kids, and by sleeping with him, those strings of attachment extended to your friend. Even if your friend didn't mean to hurt anyone, she is kind of a selfish idiot for not seeing the potential problems that would arise from this "just sex". This guy is definitely a selfish jerk. Your friend and this man's relationship has probably caused a lot of pain for his wife, emotionally scarring kind of stuff. For "just sex". Tell your friend to think it through a bit better next time - with her head instead of her groin. What if she were in the wife's position?
2006-08-27 17:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure she does. Dating a married man is never a good idea. It can not lead to anything but misery. He will not ever leave his wife and the other is left with a big empty spot. The wife comes first!
2006-08-27 17:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does feel rejected.
He was paying attention to her, spending time with her then out of no where she is not around any more.
She is missing the attention he gave her.
He should have been an adult and said some thing.
Anything from my wife does not approve of our friendship to I can not longer see you because of my inappropriate feelings.
2006-08-27 17:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she really expect she could take another woman's man and everything be just fine? How stupid can you be?
She has no right to expect anything from that man and she should go have a real relationship.
2006-08-27 17:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Het got what he needed and now its old. He has moved on. That is what happens when you mess with a marriage.
2006-08-27 17:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she gave him what he wanted in the first place (and you don't say whether they had a sexual relationship) there is NO reason for him to pursue her any longer.......Simple as that.........
2006-08-27 17:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does she expect when she porks a married man?
2006-08-27 17:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋