I wanted to thank those of you whom answered my question about what you would do in regards to me going up to this guy I REALLY love and kissing him. Well, after church today he was talking to someone about how he only wants to be friends with me and I am like broken hearted over here. he also kept getting preoccupied with his cell phone and I just wanted to die!! Inever kissed him and now obviously I won't. So now I guess, What is the remedy for a broken heart. I am so embarrassed for allowing my heart to fall in love with him that I just want to crawl under a steam truck. Is there any quick release other then death that will take this humiliation, and hurt away?
2006-08-27 16:46:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look up to god(Author of love) he will only help you heal if you let him. And if it doesn't come NEVER GIVE UP HOPE!!! Think about your life and where you heading and what you want to accomplish in life. You will someday see the right man standing in front of some day it may or may not be him. If you hit rock bottom the only place to go is up. Keep your chin up and stay in church. that will help don't worry about him. You need to go to church for your relationship between you and god. Someday you will get your season of Gospel. I hope this helped you and your in my prayers
2006-08-27 16:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by Craig G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoah, slow down! Just re-read what you typed here asking for help. Did this guy you're madly in love with even know how you feel about him? did you guys even go out with each other at least once. you're really really seem infatuated with this guy. It's ok to feel this way. If this guy you are infatuated with does not know about how you feel about him or didn't seem to notice or care about how you feel about him, then you either should tell him how you feel about him or if he already knew how you felt about him, is his own lost. Just think you'd be better off with some one who really care for you and who really want to be with you. I know it's hard going through with what's going on. Just lay low for a while give it some real good thoughts, and try to see if you can find a new interest in someone else. As far as i'm concern, this guy is stupid or being a jerk or playing hard to get or may be a nerd who is trying to avoid you from letting you see these thingss in him. Just tell yourself is his lost for not showing that he cares for you. But don't do stupid things like trying to do something to hurt the person, because you may be the one that's making everything up. So. if I were you I would just relax. Go out more. find someone who likes you for who you are, and that the show the care. Good enough, yes?
2006-08-28 00:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by FILO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, life is a challenge sometimes...sometimes you're the windshield, sometimes you're the bug! I say get a good nights sleep, and tomorrow is another day. It's kind of like getting fired when you least expect it...yet the next day you realize the whole world is an open book...you can do anything or go anywhere you want, and while on that journey, you may meet someone special; and that someone will see that you are someone special. Michelle has very good words for you for sure. Peace
2006-08-28 00:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by John L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that messed up i know how u feel/...it's goin to be a ***** to get over if u really loved him the way u say u did. but in time u will don't worry try ur best not to think bout him even though i know u still will just keep ur mind iccupied and not thinkin....hope everything goes good with you.......and good luck don't worry hang on you'll pass thru this....
2006-08-27 23:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by mr.asz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been through that many times but you just have to move on. You will get over him. He sounds like an ***. You will meet someone ten times better. Don't worry and hang in there. Someday you will look back on this and laugh.
2006-08-27 23:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on..!! Just forget him.Maybe God knows that the guy is not suitable for you.You have to thank God.There is more guys in the world and i believe you will find a guy that is more better than him.. So be more patient ok.. And always pray that someday you will find your prince...
2006-08-28 01:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
death isnt an option its going to take awhile to get over this but u will and you will be ready for the next guy. he's an idiot and you shouldn't even think about him. you know how he is now and u know what not to look for. just follow your gut and if u like a guy let him know and make him make the first move. good luck. but don't kill yourself or do something stupid. please. its not worth it.
2006-08-28 00:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by ryan s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone. Anyone. If you want you can talk to me: avssaz14@yahoo.com I know how it feels, and I know how to help. I called a really good guy friend after that happened to me, and it really helped. But please feel free to email me. I will email back tonight if you email in the next 15 minutes.
2006-08-27 23:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by Hockey Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of men out there . no guy is worth death. Friendship can always lead to more, Start by being his friend and maybe it will turn into more.
2006-08-27 23:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by hotmama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww baby. I'm sorry it didn't work out for you. Remember there are plenty of fish in the sea, one for you, and one for me. The love of your life is still out there baby. This gent wasn't the One.
2006-08-27 23:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by kram k 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋