i m 29 n got married 8months back,earlier i used to have sex for around 45 mins,but now i ejaculate within 8 or 10mins only,n my wife remains unsatisfied,how to increse my capacity to control during sex so that me n my wife get full pleasure
2006-08-27 16:35:48 · 6 answers · asked by lasta_de_vista 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
This is such a common problem, sad to say.
Make sure that you are spending plenty of time on foreplay on her. Don't expect her to preform oral on you, then get pleasure from the sex afterwords. You should be spending as much time as possible stimulating her however the two of you like. The actual act of sex is NOT where women get the most pleasure. For some women, they don't get even a little bit. But foreplay gives you a chance to arouse her and hopefully bring her to a climax. Then go for the sex itself. Try experimenting with different places as you kiss, lick, nibble, caress her. Start at the top and work your way all the way to her toes. When you find the spots that drive her wild, then use them frequently. Some very sensitive sports are often ignored by uneducated men. Under the breast, inner elbow and wrist, behind the knees, ears, etc... Women have more erogenous zones than men, so try everywhere. Get a feather or silk scarf to help discover them. The sensations can bring her to a peak quicker than you achieve yours.
Also, try some numbing lotions and oils. Check your local sex shops for safe ones. They decrease the sensation for the man, so he has a better chance of lasting longer. You aren't exactly experiencing premature ejaculation, but you could still benefit for them.
2006-08-28 03:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting off before you all start having sex and think of her perform oral sex on her she will enjoy that just as much if not more that you thought of her needs before your needs and don't worry stress has a way with sex fizz out and not getting any for a while so being new weds the stress of bills and life together may be causeing you to get off earlier than you use to good luck
2006-08-27 23:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by christy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow following steps
1: Finish the first round by masterbation
2 Then ask her to suck it till u get the second erection
3 U are ready for second round now
4 Enjoy as this second round will last much longer.
5 If u loose erection in between then go to step 2 till u regain erection
2006-08-28 08:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by chetnand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time in foreplay to satisfy your wife and talk about what you both enjoy. Mix it up and try not to stress out about time
2006-08-28 00:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by maskedlioness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing it early morning. You will be able to hold on to ejaculation a great deal longer.
2006-08-28 01:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by Geepee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try more foreplay. Also if you can hold for long then try some sprays available in market.
2006-08-28 06:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋