I am a big believer in spirits too, however you are not guaranteed to speak to the loved one you lost. The spirit realm is very complex and because there are spirits out there that are confused or angry, they have nothing else to do but play with your emotions and trick you. I attempted to reach my grandfather and although I felt that he was with me, I was not as reassured as I would have like to have been. Always know that people you love are not going anywhere til they are at peace with you being able to cope. I did alot of reading on the subject of spirits and they are more than likely going to come to you in a dream or visit you letting you know that they are there. Their fragrance or the radio coming on to their favorite song. Maybe something that belongs to them appearing out of no where. They will let you know. My Grandfather came to me in a dream and it was the best dream I can recall. You feel nothing but love and peace. Good Luck and I hope you are blessed with a blessed closure.
2006-08-27 16:56:14
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answered by Bobbie M 3
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YOUR RELATIVE IS DEAD YOU CANNOT CONTACT HIM/HER.
The Bible is very clear that when a person dies, they neither know or think anything. Untill Jesus comes to raise them from the dead.
TRUST ME - before i was a Christian i tried to contact the dead, they are only demons, really THEY ARE DEMONS!! God warns about contacting mediums and talking to spirits so don't do it.
you cannot contact any dead person. Please do not try. Listen your relative is resting now, you can't stop that.
by the way, there is a type of demon who's specific job is imitating the dead, i know this as fact. They have had many millenia to perfect this and seem to enjoy deceiving people into thinking there is life after death, and that disobeying God doesn't matter you will still be okay in an afterlife.
I hope this helps, and i hope you heed these words.
::edit:: there is only 27 people who lived on earth who are in heaven now. Enoch, Moses, Elijah, and 24 saints who were raised in matthew 27:52.
2006-08-27 16:45:25
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answered by Sky_blue 4
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first off its never a good idea to contact the dead... thus being that you could bring bad luck to you and your family and loved ones...
"For contacting the dead in a dream, i have been told that
star anise (not regular anise) seeds, althaea leaves, and
acacia leaves are burned as incense in the room where you
will be sleeping. Add some myrrh resin to the mix, for its
hypnotic qualities. Star anise is used in many "psychic
vision" type formulas, althaea is said to produce "helpful
visions" or to aid one in contacting "good spirits," and
acacia is the prime classical herb for contact with the
dead.
Some folks who wish to contact the dead in trance states
will set out a clear crystal glass bowl of fresh water to
which they add several drops of Florida Water or a type of
cologne made with kananga flowers (a.k.a. ylang ylang
flowers; used in Asia in funerary rites). They then dip a
branch of acacia leaves (the ferny-leaved kind, which can be
used as an aspergillum) into this and sprinkle the water
around as they call on the person to appear to thm in
reverie or in a dream. You could use dried acacia leaves
for this if fresh ones were not available. Performing such
a ritual while burning the above herbal-resin incesne
mixture would be a good way to induce dreams of the dead."
this would be the best was of going about this... its safer. Good luck.
2006-08-27 16:41:22
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answered by Canadian Comforts 2
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Contacting the dead is not a bad thing. Don't let people tell you it is. I just went to a cemetary where one of the handicapped people I took care of was buried 12 years ago. Now I can't remember what I had for lunch yesterday let alone remember what happened 12 years ago. I asked the girl to show me where she was buried at. I was lead to the area she was at. Then I went looking in a certain area and I didn't find her so I asked. I said "Jody, Show me where your at sweety." and I found it within 2 minutes. If you want to talk to your friend just do it. Maybe you can hold a picture of them or something that means something to them. Then just talk to them. They know what you are saying and feeling. Good luck!
2006-08-27 16:49:27
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answered by Mawyemsekhmet 5
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Ecclesiastes 9:5 and 10
2006-08-27 16:41:52
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answered by Truth 2
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Never try to contact the dead...just in your prays tell them they will be listening to you.....At least I am a believer that they will...contacting the dead even though there is times I would really love to have some my good-byes I wont ..you do not want to open a gate in that could let evil out or someone that might want to hurt you..I just talk out loud to them and hope they are listening for the hereafter..
2006-08-27 16:41:26
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answered by Daniela 2
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As a Catholic, I can tell you that many faiths believe in the "Communion of the Saints". You can ask for their help if they are in heaven, where they can pray for you directly to the Lord. An example of this is in Revelations 5:8.
The family of God is unbroken on heaven or earth.
DO NOT USE A MEDIUM, OR ANY OTHER SUPERNATURAL MEANS.
2006-08-27 16:43:31
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answered by Villain 6
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Honey, first off ,they already can hear you. Just say goodbye in your own way, and know it will get there.
You don't have to do anything special, sometimes they might visit you in dreams, but really, they can hear you where they are now. You don't need an ouija board or anything like that to contact them. Just use your heart.
2006-08-27 16:43:22
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answered by Pixie-elf 3
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You shouldnt ever try to contact the dead.......its very dangerous and you have no idea what you would be getting yourself into if you try that. Whether you believe in him or not satan is very real and if you go contacting the dead you can leave a very real opening for him and his demons to enter into and they are nothing to mess around with or attempt to mess around with.
My advice is this.......do what I do when I want to talk to someone I love who has past on.......I either go to where they are buried and talk out loud to them and in my heart I know they hear or I pray to God and ask him to let my loved one know how much I Love them and will miss them.
2006-08-27 17:09:05
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answered by wendyceline2001 3
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You dont have much hope for loved ones who have passed on do you? What would be peaceful about them being pulled out of rest to see us mourn them? Do you really think your dead loved one is wandering around in Limbo hurting because you missed saying good-bye? If you believe they went to a better place, dont try to bring them back here.
2006-08-27 16:45:19
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answered by impossble_dream 6
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