PLease help! I feel so socially detached from everyone. Even when I'm with friends I always feel like I'm an outsider looking in or just that I would rather be at home alone. I don't know whats wrong with me but I don't think I want to live the rest of my life feeling like I don't exist.
What should I do?
2006-08-27 16:32:14 · 15 answers · asked by Rika F 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Make yourself exist. You don't make your presence known or you're just around the wrong type of people that make you fell as if you don't exist. In that case you need different friends. I was the exact same way and I asked a couple of my friends why is it do I feel left out of the group and they simply said because I don't talk. If I would have known that years before I would have had friends in middle school and high school. Just be yourself and talk if you need a friend you always have me I can't shut up now.
xoxoxo
2006-08-27 16:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by datcreekgurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think we all feel the way you are feeling right now some times. Just be yourself if they are true friends they will make you feel included and you will shine .I tell myself this gotta keep my head up and never let up ! Maybe being at home makes you feel comfortable , sounds like you would rather kick it at the crib wit your man or even girlfriends . I don't know but sometimes i rather stay at home by myself . Its normal I guess and then again whats normal you'll be all right . Take care and I will check you latters .
2006-08-27 23:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by unreal250 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are depressed. I have the same problem in my life. I feel like an outsider with my friends and my family. Being alone makes it easier to deal with funny enough. But being alone only perpetuates the lonliness. I encourage you to talk to someone. You dont' want to end up like me--in my late 30s and alone in so many ways it's awful.
2006-08-28 01:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by sidnee_marie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loneliness is a curse. if you want to swallow yourself and allow this curse embrace you then it will be unevitable to feel "loneliness" you may not be really lonely. its just you might feel that you have changed and moved on leaving your friends behind. its a natural thing that happens. however, if you are going to continue to tell yourself you are lonely then you will soon believe you are and will become a hermit. try wake up in the morning and feel the light of confidence fill your veins. be energetic. perhaps you could change jobs. or schools if you are still in school. and meet some new people who are more on your level. find a pen pal or go online and chat to some intersting people. if you want to email me and chat to me my email is ness_1330@hotmail.com. there are millions of people out there who be your friend. trust me lonlieness is a curse, a choice! dont allow it to take over you, fight against it and make some friends.
2006-08-27 23:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by ness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are times that u get frustrated or depressed about something. That is one of our needs, the sense of belonging. There are times that you just have the feeling of discontent about everything around u. Re-examine urself and see what u really want and work on it.Try to know ur friends on a deeper level
2006-08-27 23:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you feel that way. I do sometimes to. I feel like I don't fit in with my in-laws and other friends. I know this sounds stupid, but may be you can try it. I know it helps me to feel a little better. write about it.. write how out feel to try and get it off your back. Maybe it'll help put things into a clear view.
2006-08-27 23:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by All I have to do is dream... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your feeling depressed by the sounds of it, you should go and talk to your doctor, or sit down with a good friend and have a chat, i find that always works.
2006-08-27 23:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by hogan522 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like typical depressive symptoms, i'd say seek the help of a therapist and/or psychiatrist. isolating and felling like you dont fit in are common signs of depression. good luck to you.
2006-08-31 21:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by mysticalflyingsquirrel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a doctor or a counselor - you can start with your school counselor and they can point you in the right direction.
you'll be okay - have confidence, and know that you are not the only one who feels this way.
2006-08-27 23:39:28 · answer #9 · answered by _aihlie_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-28 01:04:03 · answer #10 · answered by Hey you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋