so i have a bf right now and we've been going out for a little over a month. and we were friends before, and family friends too. but now, like nothing has happened yet (like holding hands, kissing, etc) but when i think about us doing that, i cannot. its so awkward because we've been such close friends for so long. and now, im not sure if i should talk to him about it and let him know how i feel about the relationship. but he's been starting to say 'i love you' but im not saying it back to him. because im not even sure if i like him as a significant other anymore. it's relaly sad, but i dont want to keep the relationship going and making him falling deeper in love with me when i dont anymore. please help!
2006-08-27 16:28:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really are going to have to talk to him sweetie, otherwise, like you said he could fall deeper for you and get hurt even more. He may be upset with you for a while, but if you were friends to begin with you will ultimately end up friends again....
2006-08-27 16:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by Squishygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u need 2 do is tell him how u feel b4 he would like have sex with u LOL!! and that would be stupid 4 u 2 wait that long, but anywayz i think u guys need 2 break up and go y'all separate ways, because y'all been 2 good friend 4 way 2 long now and y'all need 2 keep it like that, OK!!!! because i remember when i went with this boy because people kept on telling me that we look good 2gather and i did have feelings 4 him, but not like saying 'i love u' (that would be 2 much 4 me), but it wasn't 4 I'm, because he start telling me that and i had 2 make it stop so i did what i had 2 do, and this is what u need 2 do..... i told him that i would like 2 be friends instead of boy friend and girl friend, and he said OK then I'm kool with that, and we been friends ever since, but he still try 2 go back with me but im not going 4 it!!!! so break up with him b4 it gets ugly!!!!!! 4real....... and it will work out 4 u, because i will pray 4 the best 4 u k!!!!!! and god bless u...... :) take care!!!!!
2006-08-27 23:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by pretty baby gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been going out for a month and nothing? Why'd you say yes in the first place to this? You are uncomfortable and nervous. If you honestly don't see yourself being with this guy, tell him you love him and always will but not as boyfriend material. and stick by your guns.
2006-08-27 23:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys were really close (not as friends) You would know. I do't think you guys are the perfect couple so just stay friends, he might feel the same way.
2006-08-27 23:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by You're My Wonderwall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him how you feel on this, and break up with him. You're pretty much in a dead romantic relationship, but your friendship can of course continue.
2006-08-27 23:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by evilazn101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be true with what you feel. ask yourself if you really falling in love with him then that's the right time to decide if you really wanted to have him as your bf.You should think many, many times before having a commitment.
2006-08-27 23:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by richel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and let him know before he thinks it more to it and get hurt,and there gos your friendship down the drain too.
2006-08-27 23:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know exactly how you explained it to us. You're doing the right thing. If you two are really good friends, he'll understand.
2006-08-27 23:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by Private Account 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definitely talk to him before this gets too far...save the friendship good friends are very hard to find
2006-08-27 23:32:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is time for "the talk". tell him what going on..... its better for you both if you do!
2006-08-27 23:33:51 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋