im not allowed to date until im 16 and im 13 almost 14 rite now, but i have the most wonderful bf in the world and weve been going out for about 4 months now
i want my mom to know so that we can hang out more often and that i feel more safe but i dont wanna get in trouble, plus my bf goes to a different school and we both trust each other. idk wat to do and say please help me
2006-08-27 16:27:17 · 12 answers · asked by azncutie505 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, maybe u can ease him in by saying that u have a male friend u like to study with and then work it towards going to the boOK store or library, then u might can invite him over( as just a friend) so she can see u two study together, she'll see he's a nice young man then may be she's trust him enough to allow u and him to go to the movies. And u can slowly ask her if it's ok to hangout with him sometimes( as friends)
Just don't spring him on her( because that would make it bad) just talk about him to her as a friend and nothing more, then it might help her to say u can date him in a casual way.
She only has Ur best interest at heart and she doesn't want u to be distracted and forget Ur school work and not to get yourself too wrapped up with boys.
So u have to show her she can trust u because she raised u that way
Good Luck sweetie =-)
2006-08-27 16:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her like an adult. Tell her that you know you're not allowed to date for another 2 years, but you have been talking to this boy and you want her to meet him so the two of you can get to know each other better. Tell her that you want her to know because you don't want to hide anything from her. DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT tell her that you two have been dating for 4 months.
2006-08-27 23:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order for your mom to trust you and somewhat allow this reationship to go on, you have to gain her trust in letting you date. So tell her that you'll let her meet your boyfriend. Let your mom supervise you guys when you go on a date. I know that sounds lame..but later your mom is going to feel comfortable in letting you two go on dates alone. You don't want to keep your mom out in the cold. Moms want to know everything. And atleast when you tell her and she freaks out, she knows that you told her, and atleast you know she's happy, even though she doesn't show it. Parents don't like the fact that their kids are growing up. But put it to her gently, and try to convince her that you dating is a good thing.
2006-08-27 23:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by Christine S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, why don't you take him home, and introduce him to your mom as a friend? then that way she'll just think you have a boy as a friend. so then you can still hang out with your boyfriend. just dont act like you guys are dating when you guys are around your mom.
2006-08-27 23:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can say to get out of the trouble you are in. You broke her rule. She made that rule for reasons you won't understand until you are a parent.
2006-08-27 23:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont Kiss and tell
he's Just a Friend, Wink-wink
2006-08-27 23:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by Gummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HINT around to your mom. MOM can i ask you a question. this friend has a bf. what do you think? then you will know where she stands now.
2006-08-27 23:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young and immature you shouldn't even have a boyfriend at your age. you sound real slutty and ur gonna get pregnant. because ur young and you obviously dont know what you are doing.
2006-08-27 23:34:46 · answer #8 · answered by Kisses*R*Poison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that u met a nice guy, that she can trust you, that she SHOULD trust you, that she shoud trust the guy!
2006-08-27 23:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell her sneak like everybody else does, unless u have morals
2006-08-27 23:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋