my friend is such a jerk she can be caring and nice. then al the sudden her mood changes. she hurts my feeling and picks on me and my best friend. and my parents dont even like her. we brought her on vacation for 3 weeks and her parents didnt even thank my parents. shes also a spoiled brat. i wanna be friends w/ her but then i dont. i will ruin my relationship w/ my other best friend because the brat is one of her friends. what should i do???
2006-08-27 16:23:45 · 9 answers · asked by koolgurl678 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell her that if she doesn't stop being rude you won't be her friend.
Stand up for yourself! You don't need someone to be hurtful tell her the people that are mean and certainly not one's you want to call friend. Sounds like your parents don't want her around either. I would listen to them, they love you. Good Luck!
2006-08-27 16:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think she is such a brat, why were you friends in the first place? she may have a problem with ADD or bipolar disease. her parents also sound selfish. if a person is your real friend, friendship with someone else shouldn't ruin it.
i would tell the 'brat' how i feel about what she is doing and tel her the friendship will end if it doesn't change. ask her if there a problem, don't be mean. it is like a jar of jalepenoes (?) what you do today may burn your *** tommorow.
2006-08-27 16:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dance is appropriate. you could tell her you do no longer decide for to be her chum and stay away by utilising doing an interpretative dance. Create a dance which embodies all your harm thoughts and anger in the direction of her and once you spot her, pull her on the dance floor and....... DANCE such as you have never DANCED earlier! then end the dance by utilising strolling as much as her and saying 'you purely have been given served!'
2016-09-30 23:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is be very honest with her and tell her how you fell about the way she is being mean to you and that you dont like her making fun of you.Ask her why she is doing this to you and at the same time tell her you would like very much to be a good friend to her ,good friends dont treat other friends mean unless thay have a reason ,just ask her why !
2006-08-27 16:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE MAY BE GOING THROUGH SOME THINGS IN HER LIFE
THAT SHE CANT TELL YOU ABOUT USUALLY SOMEONE
IS ACTING LIKE THIS BECAUSE OF PROBLEMS AT HOME
SCHOOL, ETC. SO IF SHE REALLY IS A FR IEND THEN TRY
TALK TO HER AND LET HER THAT YOU WILL BE THERE
FOR HER. IF NOT THEN TELL HER THAT YOU CANT BE
FRIEND WITH HER ANYMORE. BUT GIVE IT A SHOT THE'OTHER WAY FIRST.
2006-08-27 16:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's alright not to be friends with her but don't make her an enemy. Just try to avoid her and spend more time with your other friends.
2006-08-27 16:31:51 · answer #6 · answered by Brosnan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her about this. If she doesn't change her ways, dump her.
2006-08-27 16:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by evilazn101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her ASAP!
2006-08-27 16:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it now
2006-08-27 16:27:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋