i broke up with ex a few weeks.we stopped communicating.he doesnt call me and i dont call him either.i would like to be friends with him.
2006-08-27 16:14:37 · 35 answers · asked by skyrus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-27 16:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started going out with my ex when I was 12 years old! It was just a bit of harmless fun then....but then we got serious! We were together my whole high schooling life! We broke up when I had just turned 18, and we vowed to stay best friends. A year later and I still talk to him everyday! I suppose the answer to your question is, if both ppl want to stay friends it is possible! BUT if one of you have any doubhts than there is not much hope! I still love him as much as I did 7 years ago....just in a diffrent way now! Hope I helped! Good Luck!
2006-08-27 16:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the circumstances of the break up-other than that give it some time for the smoke to clear before you approach him. It may take a month it may take a year, but don't sit around waiting for it to happen, get on with your life and check back in with it in a month or so. If no go, then let it go for a while longer. Eventually you will have your answer, it may not be the one you want, but you tried, and that is all anyone can do. Good Luck!
2006-08-27 16:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by bootaboutit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When me and my ex broke up we didn't really talk much after that for like 2-3 months now were close agian sorda. It's weird because now we talk about our other relationships instead of what we had. So yeah it's possible to be friends with your ex. Just depends on if you both still want to talk or not.
2006-08-27 16:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's a good idea. Obviously you two have some akward tension meaning that you two still have feelings for each other. If you two start to become friends, you two are bound to go back into a relationship. You should wait a while until you feel that it's normal. Maybe you two can pick a friendship, but for now, it's not a good time.
2006-08-27 16:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Christine S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up, move on. You can not be "friends" after you have been lovers. It won't work, if it did you'd still be a couple. Live and learn.
Take time to know the person before you let emotions get involved. Worse things can happen- and will if you fail to get to know the other person first.
2006-08-27 16:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by hithere2ya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeas it is possible it will be hard at first but if you want to be friends with him and if he wants to be friends with you then go ahead give it a try, you should not let a break up come between yall if you two want to be friends!! So ask him and see what he says!!
2006-08-27 16:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by onesexyg18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were friends before you hooked up you can go back to a friendship in time. But if you were not friends first, and you want to be now, that seems like you just want to hold on.
2006-08-27 16:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! But only after you've both moved on, so it may take years. Personally, I don't like to see them after we've broken up, but yes, I'm friends with one or two of my x's, but it's been a while.
2006-08-27 16:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible but you both need to heal a little first and if you have contact with each other that only delays the healing process. If one of you want to get back together then its not a good idea to have a friendship.....
2006-08-27 16:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how it ended and if you guys ended on a bad note then dont even try to be his friend if it ened on a good note then maybe. But once again it all depends.
2006-08-27 16:30:06 · answer #11 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋