We have dated for 2 1/2 yrs. and lived together only 8 months - what a disaster. Everything was great until we moved in together. We dated casually for the first year & then fell in love. In the beginning he had a female best friend that he spend a great deal of time with. They had been friends for over 12 years & each had a child they were raising as single parents. I wasn't concerned at first about this sitiuation but then found out recently that they were also lovers the entire time & even after he started seeing me. Yes he was sleeping with both of us the first year & half of our relationship and I just found out. She is in love with him and he says he feels nothing more than friendship also they work together & have for 15 years. He has not been in a serious relationship since he divorced 12 years ago. He says my insecurities have ruined our relationship & I dwell on the past. He blames me entirely for all our problems & now i am moving out & he still wants to date me.
2006-08-27 16:08:51 · 10 answers · asked by Missy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what ? You need to tell him to take a flying leap. This guy was having his cake and eating it too. He is obviously never going to be true to you or anyone else. Would he have put up with you seeing someone else while dating him. I don't think so . The fact that this other girl is putting up with his crap just says he's got her thinking she doesn't deserve better. Please don't let him do that to you. Get rid of him asap or your going to get your feelings hurt more in the end. You don't have a future with him.. Nobody does. You deserve better. Good Luck
2006-08-27 16:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and see, if its meant to be it , you will make it threw this next 3 hundred and sixty 5 days, which rather isnt that long of a time if u think of approximately it. use this time to get it at the same time, saving money, paying for stuff you ought to compliment, finding around the section you're the two intrested in. heck im 34, if i ought to circulate decrease back in with mom, (no longer worring bout charges, loan, nutrition, light fixtures water ect. ect... ) identity do it in a coronary heart beat! as quickly as you get interior the real international, you will comprehend, and hopfully be happy you had this time to get it at the same time.
2016-12-11 16:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by herzog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god! This sounds a lot like the last boyfriend I had. We were together for four years, 2 of them we lived together. Then one day he said he wanted to move out, but asked if we could still date. I told him he was nuts. He moved out, I missed him terribly, so I started to date him. Four months later he dumped me--on Christmas day--by email!!! Four months later he came back and asked to try again. I told him only if he wanted to marry me. We dated for two months and then he dumped me again. Then he spent all of last summer persuing me and I kept telling him no. Then he got a new girlfriend, but he tells me he still loves me and misses me. He likes to talk dirty to me on the phone. He is a liar and a cheat.
If this is the same guy....or someone like him (which it sounds like he is) Run! Run like the wind away from him!
2006-08-27 16:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away girl. He has lied to you from the start and won't stop now. You deserve more than what he was willing to give. Take time for yourself and then find someone who will really love you for who you are.
2006-08-27 16:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god only knows what the tramp gave him, go get yourselve checked out he may have passed something to u. after all if he is sleeping with 2 who knows if theres 3 or 4 or 5 or........................god knows how many others.
2006-08-27 16:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by chlo_bo69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, hes not worth your troubles. Find someone to have a real, loving, healthy relationship with!! Good luck to you!!
2006-08-27 16:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. its the first step to the break up. and now you've both sampled what marrige will be like. end it now clean cut.
2006-08-27 16:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him - he wants to have his cake and eat it too. love is casual to him. he's beyond dating since he's a dad. let him go.
2006-08-27 16:10:32 · answer #8 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of drama move on
2006-08-27 16:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's playing both of you girl . get a clue and leave his a*s*s!
2006-08-27 16:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by stickan8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋