My boyfriend and I of four years broke up about a month and a half ago. I'm slowly getting over it, having good days and bad days (this is one of the bad days.) He left me for an eighteen year old and told me about it with a text message. I think that's pretty bad, but then I read about marriages lasting ten, twenty years and then dissolving because one person cheated or whatever, and then I feel silly for being so distraught over my own heartbreak. So tell me YOUR worst breakup story and maybe we can all feel a little less alone.:)
2006-08-27 16:05:37 · 9 answers · asked by Casey 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was not good, and I don't want to hash it out online, but believe you will get over it. Anyone who would text another to breakup is horrible. He couldn't do this face-to-face? He did you a favor, even though it hurts -- he can't be that nice if he would do this by text message. Hold on, the bad days will lessen and soon the good days will be most days. It's part of the healing process.
2006-08-27 16:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Four years into a marriage I woke up and went to work. While I was there a Uhaul pulled up in our driveway and my wife left and took everything. Ohh and the best part is she was having an affair and moved in with another man. That was 3 years ago. I'm fine today except for the whole trust thing. I look back now and realize that she did me a favor. I thank God that it happened 4 years in and not 14. By the way I never got a text message, but I got the message.
2006-08-27 16:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by killmylandlord 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Mine broke up with me thru an email, too. I never saw it coming. This happened a couple of months ago. Like you I have good and bad days. And it hurts knowing you are replaced so fast. Like they don't even care about how bad you are hurting. Or like you never even mattered in the first place. Time is the only cure. And I am talking years in my case. I wish you well, sister. I wish for everyone that answers this question to find a new love fast and that they all can move on. However I believe that my own heart is broken beyond repair!
2006-08-27 16:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to get into details, but I think one of the worse things is when he leaves you without any explanation and no warning. He just disappered. It will be a month. In the beginning u think he is still going to call, then u think something happened, either to him or that he is mad at you. Then u come to the conclusion that he was a coward and vanished letting me wonder why. And it was not someone I had just met. It was an one year and a half on and off. It does hurt, it will hurt for a while, but the only thing I can do is move on. I continued going out, leaving my life.
2006-08-27 16:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by Tampa C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My 22-month relationship ended 3 months ago this coming Tuesday.
She ended it. I love her with all my heart and all my soul and all my being. There are days where I am angry as hell. There are days where I don't feel like doing a damn thing. There are days where I wish I could be with someone else to take my mind off of her. I think of her everyday and I miss her so much. I am 43 and never been married and I feel worthless. The love of my life has left me and I hate it.
2006-08-27 16:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my yes, my marriage of 8 years broke up. I was sick to my stomach, I couldn't sleep, my heart felt like it was breaking. It hurt bad!!! But as with everything, "this too, shall pass."
Stay busy and try not to be bitter or sad for too long. Go through the feelings, not around them and you'll be back to your old self in due time. Peace and Good Luck.
2006-08-27 16:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was bad, I too have not talked to my ex in a month, and had a bad day yesterday,I can't really get into it right now, you are right, it could be worse, a lot worse, overall you will feel better soon trust me, I really have no good advice, stay busy, drink alot, it helps me, e-mail me if you feel weak.
good luck
2006-08-27 16:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by I love money 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-05 22:24:51 · answer #8 · answered by derival 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..i just walked away. Simple as that. I knew it was over long before i made the decision to get out. Never gave him any specific reasons. I figure he has his entire life to think about why.
2006-08-27 16:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋