i have been going out with this guy 4 over a month and we go to difernet schools. i havn't talked to him since. his friend told me that he really really likes me. i call him and leave messages but he never returns my call. i got ahold of him about 2 weeks ago he said he lost his cell phone and he has been busy with football. i started calling his house and leaving messages. he still never returns my calls. yet his friends say he still really really likes me. what should i do. should i break up with him. i dont want to cause i still really like him. plzzz. HELP ME!!!
2006-08-27 16:01:42 · 13 answers · asked by koolgurl678 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just shrug it off, baby. I bet the greatest man you'll ever meet has been sitting right behind you in english class all along...look around for someone who appreciates the young woman you really are...you ARE beautiful...good luck, sweetheart.
2006-08-27 16:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is: do you really have a relationship? It seems not. You said you haven't seen him for a month, and he doesn't return your calls. Does it sound familiar? Plus, stop looking for him! If he is really interested, he'll look for you, and if he doesn't, then he's not that into you. What does it matter that his friends say he likes you if he doesn't even call? And about breaking up... is there something to break up if it seems like there is not relationship at all? Just stop looking for him.
2006-08-27 23:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by mnela2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you break up with this guy you need to find out from him what is really going on and then use your better judgement. His friends say he likes you but he keeps taking you for granted that is not good. He is telling you by his actions how he feels about you. When a guys likes you he wants to spend all his time with you or will try to make time for you.
This guy sounds like he is too busy for you. You need to be with someone who will make time for you. Let him go.
2006-09-03 11:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely break up with him. If he really liked you he would find time to call you, return your calls, and spend time with you. Many guys don't know how to break up with someone or don't want to deal with all the crying and emotional issues women often have when someone says they are ending the relationship. He is just making excuses of why he can't talk to you or spend time with you hoping you will "get the clue" that he no longer wants be with you. So move on and find someone who at least appreciates you enough to bluntly say he is breaking up with you.
2006-08-27 23:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by marcelluswallace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him, a guy that doesn't takes the time for returning a single phone call it's not worthy even if you realy like him
2006-08-27 23:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by Fernando 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's still early in the relationship, and if he's busy with football, he will probably be busy with basketball and baseball when winter and spring come around. Get out while you're ahead.
2006-08-27 23:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by jesser312 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he "really" liked you he would find the time to call. Don't break up with him but don't wait around either. Start dating other guys. It sounds like he's not too commited.
2006-08-27 23:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he couldn't care less. Stop chasing him and move on. I bet there are tons of cute guys at your school :)
2006-08-27 23:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him if he doesn't return your phone calls and you keep calling him it's a waste of time and pointless
2006-08-27 23:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by Zach Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe his friends...your boyfriend's actions speak loud and clear
2006-09-04 13:56:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋