help i am so sad?

Question

Someone turned me down tonight because i am fat...

Answer 1

Then he's an idiot! It was HIS loss! I hope he suffers merrcilesslyI hope he cries like a baby!

Answer 2

That wasn't nice of them. I guess if I say forget them and it's on them that they turned u down, thats not gonna make u feel any matter right now, but u will get past this.

Whomever did this is a jerk and if they truned u down b 4 getting to know u then to hell with him.

U just keep on holding ur head up and don't let it get to ya for too long because it's on him( he's the one with the problem)

I don't know if u know the actress Mon' que she's a woman who has weight onher, but she has never allowed it to get the better of her because she's knows she has weight and she also knows she's a very pretty and funny person, she said lots of people have tried to maek her feel lk=ike she should feel down or bad because of the weight, but she does not allow them too

She says she's heavy with pride and laughs at herself b 4 anyone else does. She don't care what others think of her ( and I love her for that)

She knows she's good at whatever she does even if others don't

So why don't u allow yourself to be the same way, don't let someone turning u down becasue u have weight,

To hell with them and they're picky ways

That should happen agian make a joke of it on them and say" WHATS WRONG CAN'T HANDLE ALL THIS WOMAN? I'M TOO MUCH FOR U TO HANDLE"

say it with pride and don't allow them to make u feel bad.

If it does get to ya then just keep working on trying not to allow it too, embrace ur weight and froget anyone outside that

Answer 3

do you really know if it was because you're fat? cause u should state that he said that or not. hes not worth it. Since he doenst accept you for who u r. You should be proud to be who u r. Not because of that jerk who doesnt know who u r but is just looking for some hot chick. He's stupid. So just leave him alone. You are hurt. And you know that. So since he hurts u and u r not happy ur not meant to be with him. He also doesnt deserve you because you are beautiful on the inside and he doesnt know that.

Answer 4

well ok girl i know u ain't going to let urself go get sad know i tell u something the guy that turned u down ain't nothing ok and the only think he was looking for was fun avisly he did'nt look that much ok so let me tell u there is a lot of guys who like big girls just look and don't rush he will come soon in life so cheer up.

Answer 5

At least you had the guts to offer yourself. I am fit, but was too much of a chicken to ask someone today. You're better off because you don't have to wonder. Move on. Would you have been better off with someone who's that superficial?

Answer 6

when a door closes, another widow opens. this is just another oppourtunity. you were not meant to be with this guy. would you really want someone as superficial as he is, to turn you down because he thinks you are a certain way. that's not right. for this one guy, there will be 3 more who think you are absolutely fabulous just the way you are.

Answer 7

how do you know that it was because you were fat? is that what he said? i am sorry for you, and if he dumped you because of that reason, then he is a jerk. find someone who likes you because of who you are. you can do better than that?

Answer 8

oh that sucks! hun if they dont like u thats there loss. u rock! never give up in ur self. im 5'4 and wiegh like 98lbs. i almost wiegh to less. to im really skinny. theres nothin to worry bout ur beautiful inside and outside

Answer 9

AWWW! Don't be said, cheer up! Just cuz some jerk doesn't appreciate people for what they really are, and not wat they look like on the outside. Not all guys are like that. That loser probably doesn't even deserve you! Hope you feel better hun!

Answer 10

his loss,im sure you are a wonderful person who doesnt care about the way other people look.you must be anice good hearted person.he is a shallow,unclassy,cold person who doesnt now what he missed out on i think he is stupid