to have casual sex? theres i guy i know that has been making many obvious moves and we both have a mutual attraction but for me it is all physical...we have gotten into many situations where we get to that point but i stop b/c i feel guilty. help! (this happens with more than one guy)
dont judge me please
2006-08-27 15:44:57 · 17 answers · asked by Sarah K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for all the answes so far
2006-08-27 15:55:27 · update #1
ok i wont judge u i some what understand u as well but u be the judge to have hiv or not to have hiv u judge that next time u get down and do what u do, respect ur self save ur self for some 1 who loves u and not just using u cause its ok with u at the time u can talk to me if need be
2006-08-27 15:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by 1plum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad to want - but kind of risky to do these days. It only takes that one encounter with some guy that is infected with a life threatening STD to ruin the future life you were planning.
I would work on your self esteem and figure out what type of relationship you really want and the type of guy you want to be with. Work on that before you go on with the casual relationships that don't lead anywhere. Because you don't sound happy about the choices you are currently making.
I'm not judging - It just sounds like you are crying out for help -
2006-08-27 22:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by Claire 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal to want to have casual sex, but premarital sex is a sin. It is better to control your urges than to give in to them, otherwise later in life you'll regret it for giving in to a guy before marriage. I'm not judging you, it happened to me.
2006-08-27 22:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by midnightwolf99_2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just have sex already and stop worryin so much. Be safe and go screw some more. Sex is healthy and it burns calories too. Just pretend you're on a diet and sex is helping you lose weight.
2006-08-27 22:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with casual sex, it's natural, if you are attracted to someone and single have fun! Just remember to use condom sense
2006-08-27 22:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by bolandalbaby@verizon.net 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it degrades your future sex with your future husband and makes it less important than it could be to your family. You will use past experiences to judge
Good Luck to You and God Bless!!
2006-08-27 22:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by msqtech 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is up to you. There are of course risks - std's, pregnancy, or just emotional feelings. As long as you accept the risks and are ok with them do what you want. It is your life.
2006-08-27 22:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for what you want in life especially if you arnt commit-ed to anyone full time ...have fun follow those hormones
2006-08-27 23:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by sueroooo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel guilty baceause you dont want to grow an emotional attachment to the men your sleeping with
2006-08-27 22:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no.
Not in this day and age. Its the norm. Im suprised peolple are even getting married anymore.
2006-08-27 22:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by Kayte 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋