I'll be having sex for the first time in a few days and I have no clue what to do.?

Question

A friend said that if I learn how to ride good I'll be ok so do anyone have any suggestions how I can ride and be good great even....

I'm not young I'm 18 by the way

Answer 1

Maybe you should hope the guy is a little more experienced than you or else it's gonna be a clusterfuck.

Answer 2

First of all don't listen to your friend... Different men like different things. So there is no best way if you don't know what he likes. Secondly, sex is natural and spontaneous. You can plan out when, but you can't plan how it's gonna be. Just don't be nervous and go with how your body reacts to his touches and motions. You'll be fine if you calm down and go with the flow. If you're tense it could be a bad experience, but if you're relaxed it can be great.

Answer 3

if its your first time, I doubt that you will want to ride him, it is going to be uncomfortable for you at first. you want to be on the bottom. tell him to take it slow, and let your body get comfortable. make sure you are aroused before you let him try, or it will really hurt! if it is someone you love, and are with, then you have plenty of time to learn the other stuff together. and everyone has their own preferance, so even if you learn somthing that one guy likes, it doesnt mean they all will. just take it slow and learn what you like. (dont only worry about what is good for him, you should get to enjoy it too.... good luck :)

Answer 4

Two things to remember:

1) Always use a condom

2) Plan for other birth control as well.

Other than that, remember that practice makes perfect.- the first time is usually awkward because knees and elbows and stuff get in the way. You'll figure it out eventually.

Answer 5

Well, firstly, if you are on bottom, then you probly will have to do less. Of course you could bye a book of tantra or the kama Sutra and find someone you trust and practice a little with them (with your clothes on i mean). If your boyfriend (i assume you're a girl because of the way you say 'ride') knows you're a virgin then he shouldn't expect you to be very good, and he should be helpful and understanding.

Answer 6

Listen,make sure 100% u want 2 do this. And if u r, just let your female instinct have it's way. Foreplay is very important it get's your body all charged up. Don't worry about if u r doin it the "right" way, just enjoy the feelings:)

Answer 7

ok 1st, if it's your first time, Make Sure you love this person,or do not do it. you may not understand what i'm saying now, but later you will be glad you held out, there no better time than your first time, but i loved the girl i had that nighjt, and for the answer about having the best way of making love,lay downlet him/her decide whats next,then there is NO WAY you will loose. good luck and have safe sex!

Answer 8

There is no way to plan for first time, just let it happen, wait until you are married, don't give away the most precious thing you own to the wrong person,sounds like you are being pressured

Answer 9

There is every reason to believe that you will figure out what to do. The human race has managed to survive for thousands of years for a reason. Aside from that, I don't really understand what your question is. Are you looking for pointers on technique?

Answer 10

well after the guy blows obviously your done the job right just lay your self over the edge of the bed and let him take control as you get more experienced with the procedure you will understand where your position will alter the experienced

Answer 11

1. Protection
2. remember that the first few times are likely to be a dissapointment but that with practice (sweet practice) you will get better and pretty soon sex will be one of your favorite things to do.