for some reason guys wont take me seriosly. when ever i go out with someone the expect me to have sex with them and im a virgin too and i cant find a guy that respects me. is cause im blonde or somthing?
2006-08-27 15:30:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no its cause guys are horny as hell all the time. just find the right person and youll see that that person deserves ur time
2006-08-27 15:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by dbmistry88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously dating the wrong guys. The ones that really respect you will respect all of you and though they may want to have sex with you (it is human nature) they should respect you enough to not pressure you. Hold out and you will find the right one. My experience is that the quiet ones are the greatest guys. Stop following typical woman instincts and go for the nice guy. It pays off.
BTW - Good for you on being a virgin. Sleeping around only degrades character
2006-08-27 22:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by sexyheater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are not going to take you serious until you start taking yourself seriously. Start respecting yourself, dont go out with just any guy, show some confidence dont be too nice. Men can smell an easy girl a mile away. So respect yourself. If you are asking this question then I think that you need some growing up to do, seriously.
2006-08-27 22:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by gm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect yourself first, and demand respect of others. Then others will respect you. Prove the stereotypes about blondes wrong. They can expect sex all they want as long as when you start going out with someone they understand that you're not with them for that, and tell them that up front.
2006-08-27 22:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's naive to think that it's because you're blonde...
Have you given them a reason to think that they can just get whatever they want from you? & How old are you? If the guys you're talking about are immature, then that's exactly why sex is all they're after.
And don't worry about it, you'll find a guy who loves you soon enough. Cheesy as that sounds, it's so true.
2006-08-27 22:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From now on tell them up front, nicely, that you intend on waiting to have sex until you know things are going to be serious. Another thing, if all they do is talk about sex or hint about getting you into bed, they are not worth it!
2006-08-27 22:34:05 · answer #6 · answered by abl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may have to do with the way in which you present yourself. i have found that most men treat women according to how she presents herself. perhaps you are giving off the wrong impression, like, you wanna have sex with them. if so, don't do that anymore. or, you could just be hooking up with losers...
my suggestion: start asking men out, the type who treat women as individuals and not a slab of meat...
2006-08-27 22:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Dizzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completly agree with Gweedo...this used to happened to my best friend. Wrong signals... maybe your body language, your flirtness or sexiness make them think that your are up for what they are searching. Nothing to do with been blonde.
2006-08-27 22:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heater is so totally spot on it's not even funny. Choose her's as the best answer and take the advice.
2006-08-28 00:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by czimme3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might b providing them with 2 much info. about yourself like that u r a virgin
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