only for people who know 3b curly hair?

Question

it about shoulder length and thick thick thick and i cant leave it down so what are osme other ways to put it that are cute oh and the bangs only go to my middle cheeck so anyhitng that can incorporate those is good any home remedies you might have to frizziness would help or anything ot make it set better

for the girl who asked about leaving it down let me say i have been to many people and they all agree i have the thickest hair ever i mean its just unflattering how this it is so the first thought every one of them had was straighten it and they did and they did a good job but my hari still looks this size litreally this is the best i could find to compare and thats really how big it looks https://www.mardigrasoutlet.com/details.asp?prodID=929

i mean its just unatractive i am a white girl and so the whole natural fro thing just doesnt look good on me all the websties with advice on curly curly hair is for black textured hair and mine is not and there arent any professionals on curly hair anywhere near where i live

also im not looking for a hair cut im loking for a cute updo or osmethign like that

k i may have exagerated on the hat but not by much my hair is huge

and my hair is so effin dry when its straight it loks fake and wirey

Answer 1

You need proper hair care for that

Answer 2

My daughter and I hair like yours. She is 30 and I am 55. I've been cutting it for her for many years. When she went to the hair dresser's they cut bangs which basically don't work for really thick curly hair. Insist that only hair dressers who are experienced with your type of hair cut it.
Let the bangs grow out. Use thining scissors which take out some of the thickness but blend properly-around the edges.
Never brush or comb your hair, only use your fingers and don't blow dry. Use a leave-in conditioner, there are some great glosses or "varnishes" on the market for your hair too. Olive oil works fine, so does Emu oil or creams. Some people like vo5 hot oil treatment... I also have curly hair.....it must be layered properly.

Answer 3

Why can't you leave it down? I'm curious to know. Is it a job thing or do you just not like it? If you just don't like it, get a new haircut first and foremost. Don't get it thinned like some people do, just go to a hairstylist who specializes in curly hair (or anyone whose first suggestion to you isn't "let's blowdry it straight!" when they see you, if an expert is not available where you live) and ask for a haircut that will be easy to care for and cute. Letting curly hair down is the best way to wear it, it's what the curls want anyway, and they have ways to get what they want whether you like it or not.

The trick to curls is not to touch them too much. If you brush them when they are dry, or when they are drying, you will only separate the curls, and that will make them angry. When they are angry, they frizz, out of spite, just to make you look bad. Comb them lightly with your fingers when they are wet. If you are using a conditioner that leaves your hair knotty, you are using the wrong conditioner. I like Finesse for curly hair, I think it's the best stuff under $15. (It's about $4) It leaves hair smooth and easy to deal with. Use an anti-frizz product specifically made for curly hair. Things like "Frizz-ease" are made for straight hair, and just make curls sticky and kind of mashed down. I like L'Oreal pumping curls spray. It really helps with my frizz. Anything that says "for curly hair" is usually helpful, though.

If you really must put your hair up, my suggestion is to grab a bunch and twist tightly, so that the hair twists back down to your head. Then pin the coil to your scalp. If you do a lot of these all over your head, they look cute and they won't fall out if your hair is too short for a ponytail.

Answer 4

You may want to consult your beauty advisor ...