it seems that what ever i try i cant do good enough for people to notise me at all. and whats worse when ever i start to do good some one else comes in and odes better and thus i get turned away because i know i cant be as good as them. why is thins? why cant i have my own special thing and why must some one come and ruin my goof fortune when ever i try some thing.
2006-08-27 14:40:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
NO ONE IS BETTER THEN ANYONE--REMEMBER THAT!
However, everyone IS different and unique.
I love math (seriously) but that does not make me better then a person who doesn't...I love to get up in front of people and speak, but that does not make me better then the person who doesn't enjoy doing that.
I am not an outdoor person, but I am not less of a person because I prefer the inside. I am not married, but that does not make married people better then me.
You ARE UNIQUE and because of this, you are special.
EVERYONE is unique and special, just NOT more then someone else.
(As you live longer, you will realize this).
No one will ever live in your shoes...no one else will live only with you the rest of your life (except you) so embrace that. Enjoy and love who YOU are and don't campare others to you.
Email me if you want..or IM me (sierrababy44)
2006-08-27 15:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by Dune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this is simple: Self-confidence. If you believe your better than others, or at least AS good as others, then that's all you need. Don't be looking at what others can do and how much better they do it. Focus on yourself. If you spend your life worried about how bad/good you are in someone else's eyes, you're going to miss out on something important. Take a stand. If you believe you are good at something, make them listen to you. Make them notice you. . .
Plus. . . no matter how many people seem better than you, there is ALWAYS some one worse off. . . always.
2006-08-27 14:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rockerbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I feel the same way most of the time. Someone will eventually notice the good things you do - don't worry, just keep on being you and doing whats right. Sometimes, it just takes a lil patience. You are just as good as everyone else.
2006-08-27 14:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by justme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 23:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've decided that the best thing to do is to ignore that feeling. Everyone is different and that means there are things about you that are unique. Don't be so hard on yourself. Just do your best and if it's not good enough you can try something else. You're bound to find something that fits your style.
I just sent "Tony" a message asking him wtf is up with his answer! He's the loser!
2006-08-27 14:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most everyone goes through this! Except maybe pigheaded people maybe! I think you just have to block out what other people do or say and concentrate on yourself! Impress yourself and don't worry so much about being the best at whatever it is your doing! Live for yourself!
2006-08-27 14:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost everyone wears a mask and almost everyone thinks they're the biggest failure behind the mask.
Individuals see the endless masks.... they're deeply confused. Each person is with their own faults 24/7.
No one is inferior, no one is superior. All else is just ego.
2006-08-27 15:05:11 · answer #7 · answered by unseen_force_22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to a lot of people. When talking to someone you like, always look clean, respectful and be polite and try to complement them with something personal.
2006-08-27 14:54:52 · answer #8 · answered by tiger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time.
2006-08-27 14:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know sweets its happened to me everyday of my life. i have lived in the shadow of my littles sister since she was born. the only thing that i have that she doesn't is personality and a sense of humor. Now i have someone that loves me and cares for me and doesn't keep me around just because is have kids with them. so keep your chin up. you'll get yours. no doubt
2006-08-27 14:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by Teri D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋