2006-08-27 14:39:42 · 14 answers · asked by quarterless2011 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't do a thing; you've already done the right thing. If you get back with him, it'll be okay for a few days, but then he'll be back to pressuing you. Find a guy who's more on you're level. You sound young, so please take my advice. I'm 27 and I've been there: take your time.
2006-08-27 14:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by Thaelia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first-class technique to speed things up is to inform his wife he's having an affair. It is going to speed matters up in a direction you do not want, although. How have you learnt he doesn't love his spouse? Just on account that he told you? He's being dishonest with his spouse and children, so why do you suppose he is being sincere with you? Do think about it and check out to be extra mature and sensible about all of it. I'm going to bet that in case you stop having intercourse he'll go away you. He is probably not leeching your money yet, however he's going to must pay his wife and give cash for baby support as good as pay his way with you if you get your method. Money is the essential rationale why 2d marriages fail. If his values include dishonest on his wife and being in a position to abandon his negative youngsters, you by and large deserve every different. Ever surprise simply why your neighbors disapprove? You are not able to have so much respect for them if you happen to lie so effortlessly. Frankly, you come throughout as a silly little lady who most effective wishes to comply with her desires it doesn't matter what the penalties for different individuals.
2016-08-09 12:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by calles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And Ex is an Ex keep moving on don't break his heart twice,if you want happy the first you want be happy now,moving to fast i just don't get,he was your husband ,you should have talk it over ,communicate that is what is wrong in lots of relationships.
2006-08-27 14:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loved him, you shouldn't have broken off the relationship, you should have just sat down and talked with him and tell him that he's moving a little to fast for you and that you want to take it slow. If he loves you like he say he does than he would slow down and take his time with you and he wouldn't want you to do something that you don't want to do
2006-08-27 14:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by msknowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let yourself be drawn into anything that you don't want. If he was too fast before, you need to make it VERY clear (preferably over the phone) that you are NOT ready for certain things. State it up front, that way he can't accuse you of being a tease. State it, and stick to it.
2006-08-27 14:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends on u.... if u realy like him then let him know but make him understand that u r not ready to move on to that level, if he loves u he will understand and wait as long as it takes. good for u keep holding ur grounds and not be a fool. i dont know u but im proud of u... go ahead smile give ur self a pat on the back
2006-08-27 14:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your instincts
i had a bf who moved too fast and i tried to ignore it.
turns out we broke up for every reason i thought would eventually end the relationship.
2006-08-27 14:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. What you did was right. You trusted your gut and followed your heart. It wasn't meant to be. You'll find another guy who will love you and respect your feelings by moving at your pace.
2006-08-27 14:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have already let him know that he was moving too fast ...
if he has any respect for you, he would have respect your decision for not having sex in da 1st place....
don't blame yourself for nothing, he might just want to f*** you only..
2006-08-27 14:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by megadisc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and explain to him that you two need to slow down he says he loves you so he should understand
2006-08-27 14:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋